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Caught between two guys. (Sorry it's long)
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 5:11 pm
I'm 15/female.
Here's what's going on... I was in a relationship with this guy, we'll call him Keith. Keith is 20, he'll be 21 in 15 days (no this isn't about age or anything, because I'm mature for my age, he's immature and where I live, we're legal), so Keith and I have known eachother for about 2 months, we dated for just over a month. During that time, we spent pretty much all our time together, I stayed over at his house for a week at a time, several times, and hung out with him all the time. Our relationship was going really really well, like don't get me wrong, we fought and everything but it was the type of relationship where we would fight, but we'd talk everything out afterwards and make everything work. So, what ha...
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i want to sleep over his house
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 3:23 pm
okay. so i have ben dating this guy for over a year now and we are so close we have done everything really so there im close to his family well close enough for now and im 17 i think it would be okay if i slept at his house with my mom knowing it would be great i wouldnt have to leave and id be happy his mom doesnt care if she talks to my mom. but my mom wont even let us in my room together whatever but so here what is a way that i could talk my mom into letting me go sleep at his house or let him in my room when he comes over.????
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Fingered my best friend
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 2:53 pm
Uh im gonna shorten this as much as I can but i think more detail would give me better answers so... bare with me.
Me and my best friend met when we were 12. She moved in next door. I liked her in that puppy dog kinda thing ya know and she liked me to. But nothing ever happen. About 7th grade we dated for...3 days i think. She was like its awkward your my best friend my brother whatever. I was like ok its cool. We kissed on a truth or dare thing, both of our first kisses.
So 11th grade high school were 17. Shes dated this kid named *bob* for about 4 years. They break up on and off, he treats her bad, yea. Well i liked her this whole time and it was terrible, picking her up from his house crying at like 2 am. H...
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Seinor with a freshie
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 2:06 pm
Ok, so I'm a freshman.. And the guy I really like Is a senior. He likes me to. It's just hard to get him to be 'mine' because of the age distance... And he has never had sex so he is not just using me or anything.. And I really trust him but.. How can I get him to be mine?? Were in the I like you you like me stage and we have been for like 2 months... Just any advice would be good!
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my dad and my boyfriend
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 10:35 am
i have a boyfriend named derek lyons.i have a father named bill vondran. my boyfriend loves me so much and im helping him with his drug addiction and he cant keep his anger in. my dad hates him he thinks i should brake up with him so he thinks i cant get anywhere in life with him but i can. he does grawls the metal voice and he can play bass perfectly. my dad is a christian my boyfriend is a demon.my boyfriend needs me everyday and we cant be away from eachother we are bound. my father wants me to get another and he thinks that im scared to brakeup with him. but im not im inlove. my dad truely hates him always trying to tell me horrible things about him but he dont know him. i only know him truely. i love him i dont want to leet him go. am ...
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Long Distance Relationship
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 9:32 am
I'm 16/f. My boyfriend is 17.
God, I love him a whole lot. We just started dating, but we've been friends for so long that it's just like what was supposed to happen.
Except...
He lives an hour away from me.
I'm trying to be realistic here, because I'm only sixteen years old, so how does anyone expect a sixteen year old to even WANT to make a long distance relationship work.
It's just that, all the guys at my school are total jerks. And he's tired of all the girls at his school because they're kind of sluts. And we just have liked each other for so long.
It would've been easier if he still lived here, but he moved about a year ago.
I don't know ...
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how far, how fast..
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 8:02 am
I've been in an exclusive relationship with this guy for three months. He's perfect and amazing and our relationship is great. In addition to the emotional aspect of our relationship (we connect really well), we are extremely attracted to one another... so we usually end our dates with an intense makeout session accompanied by other stuff at his house for hours at a time. He's focused on pleasuring me and asks for nothing in return. He only does what I'm comfortable with. Thus far he's fingered me and felt me up, both through my clothes, in addition to some other stuff not as sexual. I am saving myself for marriage and he knows and is fine with this but I'm just afriad we're moving too fast, that we'll do everything there is to do outside o...
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Faked it,,,,,,feel horrible....
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 5:56 am
So i'm 16 and i've been with this guy for six months and we've done the 3rd base thing. Like he fingers me and i've given him a hand job. So like i of course always make him finish but he's never made me orgasm. Like i've been closish....i think....but i always feel like i'm gonna pee, i've been able to orgasm on my own and it doesnt feel like that and i dont know why he cant make me, even though he does he same thing i do, clit stimulation. The other day he was really working hard and it always feels really good, its not that it doesn't but idk i can't finish. Maybe i'm afraid to infront of him? but i dont think so cause i really want to, i even direct him sometimes. Well anyway yeah he was working real hard and i knew he was getting tired...
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How to stop having feelings for him
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 3:53 am
I don't like how I feel sometimes about my ex. He's my best friend and I know that we are meant to be friends. I don't want to like him as more than that, but the feelings haven't gone away. He broke up with me about 2 months ago because he said that his feelings weren't there anymore.
I know that he isn't right for me. I've known it all along, but over the course of our time together I slowly had stronger feelings for him until I really did love him. But certain things about us together were never ideal. Basically, I loved him and imagined my life together with him, but there was always a small amount of doubt. All the same, it didn't make it any easier after the break up. I felt like I lost the love of my life. I became ex...
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Strained Relationship. What should I do?
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 2:12 am
Okay, so here's my story.
Back in 9th grade (The summer before that, actually) I was dating this girl. We'll call her "Jane".
“Jane” is a year younger than me. She’s an A-B student.
So, anyway. We went out for about a month. We were pretty close. By the end of the summer, right before school started, her best friend told her that she was moving away to Kentucky (Or Kansas, I don't really know anymore). So we through her a big moving away/we'll miss you party. That evening we were sitting on her couch in her basement watching some stupid old movie when she comes out with the whole "I can't be seeing you anymore, I need to be with my best friend before she moves away" thin...
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help a chick out please:)
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 1:23 am
Ok there's this guy i've known for like 2 years now. hes great but we only get to see each other like once or twice a week at basketball practice. i flirt with him and he flirts back(i know he likes me) but he has no clue i like him. its like he just doesn't think its possible. i look at him and know hes not hot but for some reason i've always been attracted to him. i really really like him but part of me is afraid to ever really act on it because i'm scared i'll change my mind when we're dating and hurt him. our parents are pretty close and his family loves me so i don't want to screw that up. also the next relationship i want to be in is a long one. times kinda running out because if bball ends and me and him aren't dating by then i will ...
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past one night stand?
Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 12:04 am
So I am a lesbian and my gf told me about 2 months ago that her roomate was the first girl she slept with. My gf got into a bind and her roomate took her in and helping her until she gets her own place. They had sex 10 years ago and its always been on the downlow sometimes I am confused because her roomate is very bossy and rude and makes her watch her kids 24/7. My gf says that was like a one night stand no feeling she dont want her nothing like that. It is hard to think otherwise when they live together but are like best friends and her roomate is like a mom cuz she took her in cuz her mom kicked her out. Well new years I got upset and said something to her roomates sister who didnt know my gf got upset said she felt betrayed and said she...
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A approriate place to make love with your boyfriend
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 10:16 pm
I need advice! please help im 19/f and my boyfriend is 20yrs of age and I we want to make love but I dont want to have it on my house or at his place because of parents we want total privacy and I was wondering in a motel but dont want him to pay or neither do I for just making love should we still go? I dont know what to do...please help
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alone forever
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 10:07 pm
Im 17
and iv never had a real boyfriend i dont know why it might be because im big but i mean come on iv been kissed but never in a relationship im a good friend and thats all i can be the best friend but nothing els iv been close but it never happens all i ever get is your friend is cute hot and everything els or does she have a boyfriend im lost i just dont know what to do do i stop trying and hope it comes my way soon
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Is this healthy?
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 9:42 pm
I'm a 17/f dating an 18/f and we've been together for more than 4 months. I love her, I really do.. but sometimes I think it's not healthy to love her this much. Whenever I'm away from her I wonder about what she's doing and where she's at. Is she at home? Is she sleeping? Is she on facebook? Is she eating? Watchig t.v.? Things like that. I really miss her when she's away from me and I go crazy or something because I can't talk to her and start thinking about all the possibilities that she could be out with someone else. I know that this is my insecurity and I wish she could reassure me that I'm the only one in her heart and I don't want to have to ask her. Our parents don't know that we're together, but we think that they might have some c...
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i just dont know what to do anymore!
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 6:35 pm
sorry it's a little long.okay i work with this guy. i've known him for two years, im 18 he is 20. we have always flirted with eachother at work and this past summer we finally just started hanging out and "dating" we hung out and dated for about a month and after a month he told me that he was confused about stuff and wasn't sure what to do. before we started dating we were really good friends and he would always come to me with his problems. but when i asked him to talk things out with me, he said he didn't really know how to explain things. in my mind, im thinking that he doesnt wanna get too attached to me since im leaving this summer for college.
so i stopped talking to him, still seeing him at work almost everyday so...
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18 yr old on craigslist personals?
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 3:55 pm
Hi! I am a freshman at a small ivy league college and it's really hard for me to meet decent guys. Most of the guys r too short and/or too busy, too disinterested to wanna relationship (long-term or short-term) Also, since the "hook-up" scene is pretty small, I don't want to get involved w/ guys that i may potentially see in chem lab or history class the next day, if u know what i mean. So, I discovered the personals section of craigslist and i was thinking of replying to one of the "casual encounters" posts, as i m not looking for a serious relationship, just some "fun" from time to time. is this so bad? Is this a good idea? Plus, if I did reply, I wouldn't know how to set it up. Should I tell my friends about...
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How can I tell her.
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 3:20 pm
20/M
This is going to be pretty long, sorry.
Well, approximately 3 years ago me and my friend were walking down the street and we met these two girls. Let's call them Linda and Julia. Well, I am a big flirt so I started to flirt with Julia. And we hit it off. I invited them to a party that weekend. Long story short, we became really close friends. Within one year of our friendship, My friend and Linda have gotten pretty close and they started going out. And when I saw them going out, I decided to ask out Julia a couple months after that. All four of us became really close friends. Due to some family problems, my friend had to move which put a strain on my friend and Linda's relationship. They split but they wer...
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how to meet new people.
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 12:46 pm
i go to a small high school and i pretty much know most of the people. me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up about 3 months ago and i think its time for me to meet new people....but idk how to do this? like you don't just go out on the road and yell when you see a goodlooking guy and i don't wanna seem desperate...so how do i meet new people my age? and i dont know of any underage clubs or anything..
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asthma attacks - leave or not leave?
Posted Saturday January 2 2010, 5:39 am
16/f
i notice that ever time when my boyfriend cries really hard, he ends up getting asthma attack. and i don't mean those regular asthma attacks, i mean he went to the doctor and they said to stay away from whatever makes him cry.. cause nothing can't stop those type of asthma attacks. so basically, he won't breathe until he dies.. and that gets me really nervous. i feel like i'm the one causing it, cause he cries because of me. i feel like i push things too far or something when i'm angry, and i've been trying to control that. but when i'm angry nothing really runs through my mind besides negative things, and it just gets me more upset and i just end up speaking my mind. but he says it's not because of that, just that he a...
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