sorry it's a little long.okay i work with this guy. i've known him for two years, im 18 he is 20. we have always flirted with eachother at work and this past summer we finally just started hanging out and "dating" we hung out and dated for about a month and after a month he told me that he was confused about stuff and wasn't sure what to do. before we started dating we were really good friends and he would always come to me with his problems. but when i asked him to talk things out with me, he said he didn't really know how to explain things. in my mind, im thinking that he doesnt wanna get too attached to me since im leaving this summer for college.
so i stopped talking to him, still seeing him at work almost everyday so its so hard for me to get over him. and at work, he acts like he always had.he still talks to me, flirts, and even gives me hugs sometimes before i leave.so just about two weeks ago, he texted me and ask me to come over to his place to watch a pens game. i went over and hung out with him and all his friends, which im friends with all his friends too. so we ended up hooking up after watching the game and after i left he texted me and we were texting all night but then after that night i haven't really talked to him. i really like this guy and i havent felt this way about any guy before. i just really dont know what to do cause obviously i still like him and still want to be around him, but im going crazy inside cause one minute he is into me and then the next he isn't. i try so hard to move on, but i just cant get over him. whaat should i do?!
thank you in advance!
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zazzle_123 answered Sunday January 3 2010, 11:33 am: Stop and talk to him and get everything in the clear. If he doesn't like you then just be friends, if he does then YOU tell him how you feel. Hope it helps.... [ zazzle_123's advice column | Ask zazzle_123 A Question ]
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