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my dad and my boyfriend


Question Posted Sunday January 3 2010, 10:35 am

i have a boyfriend named derek lyons.i have a father named bill vondran. my boyfriend loves me so much and im helping him with his drug addiction and he cant keep his anger in. my dad hates him he thinks i should brake up with him so he thinks i cant get anywhere in life with him but i can. he does grawls the metal voice and he can play bass perfectly. my dad is a christian my boyfriend is a demon.my boyfriend needs me everyday and we cant be away from eachother we are bound. my father wants me to get another and he thinks that im scared to brakeup with him. but im not im inlove. my dad truely hates him always trying to tell me horrible things about him but he dont know him. i only know him truely. i love him i dont want to leet him go. am i the only one that goes away from my father and follow my love???

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LAkAySiA answered Monday January 4 2010, 4:10 am:
dnt worry about what that !
talk to your dad && tell him how you feel !
tell him itll really kill you to let him go !
tell him to stay out of it
let himknow your understand hes trina pretect you !
but some things you want to learn on your own !
if you love him be with him !
Not everybody is a saint !
who knows maybe you can change him !
never give up on what you cant go a day without thinking about !
LOve is stronger then any addiction !

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WyzeLizzy answered Sunday January 3 2010, 4:36 pm:
I've left my parents to follow my love many years ago...I have had 2 loves since then...it was not worth it.
At a young age, we think we know what love is, but it turns out just being the emotion of being accepted by someone else besides our parents.
I had that same demon boyfriend that only ripped me away from the people I love, and did not provide me with everything I needed as a woman. He became disrespectful and uncaring of what I needed.
It doesn't happen like that to everyone, but if a man comes into your life and approves of you pulling away from your father, then he is not what's best for you. Your BoyFriend should care that you have a loving relationship with your father.
Haven't you heard the term "Daddy knows best". I guess I say most of this because I am a true Daddy's girl, and noone could be there for me like my father.
Years later, I am happily married with a man who is very much like my own father. Caring, tender, makes me feel protected and completely loved.

Take a moment to Step outside your box and look several years down the road, where you will one day look back at this situation. Perhaps try to see your own daughter doing the same thing. Do you see it to have worked out to your benefit and can you see yourself really being happy with being with this demon person??

Keep me posted and good luck!

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