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Caught between two guys. (Sorry it's long)
I'm 15/female.
Here's what's going on... I was in a relationship with this guy, we'll call him Keith. Keith is 20, he'll be 21 in 15 days (no this isn't about age or anything, because I'm mature for my age, he's immature and where I live, we're legal), so Keith and I have known eachother for about 2 months, we dated for just over a month. During that time, we spent pretty much all our time together, I stayed over at his house for a week at a time, several times, and hung out with him all the time. Our relationship was going really really well, like don't get me wrong, we fought and everything but it was the type of relationship where we would fight, but we'd talk everything out afterwards and make everything work. So, what happened was, I found out he was engaged to his baby mama who lives an hour away who he rarely sees, and he liked and was cheating on me with another girl who was dating my other ex-boyfriend as well. So I found out while I was at an all-ages night club, called him and broke up with him. At the club, I was with this other guy, we'll call him Tyler. Tyler's 16 and last year, around March or April, I got pregnant with his kid, but ended up having a miscarriage at about 2 months along. Since then, we've stayed very good friends, and we spent the entire summer together, until we were very stupid, broke into a house together and got caught. Now I have a non-assosiation order with him, and I didn't see him in 6 months until boxing day which was the day before we went to the club. ANYWAYS, so Tyler and I were kissing and acting like a couple at the club, and his friend told me he though we might start dating, and I felt the same way, until the cops showed up and arrested him for a fight he didn't even get into. Now he's doing 3 months in jail, which is kid time for him, and my street sister says she's going to hook me up with him after he gets out of jail. The only problem with that is that I still have very strong feelings for Keith, and I don't know what's going to happen between us between now and then, because I went to his house to see if any of my stuff was still there, and it he couldn't even keep eye contact with me, and he hugged me for longer than an ex usually would.
So basiclly, I can honestly say I love them both. I know if I date Tyler, he'll treat me right and we've been so tight for so long, we know eachother really really well. And if I date Keith, I know I'll be really really happy with him, I'm just afraid that if I do, he's going to pull the same shit as he did before, and I don't think I could handle that again. Plus I can barely talk to Keith right now, because his phone is cut off and when I can get a hold of him, his new girlfriend (the one he was cheating on me with) won't let him talk to me. And I can't talk to Tyler for 3 months .
WHAT DO I DO ?!?! :(
Thanks in advace,
And sorry this is so long .
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I completely agree with the other answer. You can do better than either one of these losers. And if you take Keith back, you're just begging to get cheated on again.
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One is in jail, and the other has a girlfriend and a history of cheating in big ways.
Surely you can do better than that.
Never go back to Keith, ever. He will pull the same shit, and you have at least three months before you can even speak to Tyler agian... Why not take those three months and see if you can meey someone better then these two?
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