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Can't sustain erection


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 10:46 am

Hi,

I'll get straight to it. I can't keep "it" up.

I'm attracted to this girl, and every time we do it, I can get it up. And everything will be fine for the most part. To stop me finishing too early, I seem to keep stopping and starting. So I will continue, and like I said, everything will be fine. But then, I will go soft. And I'll try to get it up again, but I can't. I try to put it in, but It'll flop right back out again.

And it get's me really frustrated. I thought it was because of smoking, so I stopped. But it still happens. I'm comfortable around the girl, and she's given me the whole "You know I like you, even if you can't finish?" and it just feels patronizing - ev...

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Placed 2nd Too Much


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 10:24 am

Well I have this "best friend"
I dont even no what she is really. we both have done so pretty fucked up stuff to one another, sutff that it acutlaly extremely interesting and fucked up beyond believe but that would take another paragraph to explain ( email me if you want the story, it is very unique) But all and all, I love her. latley tho, things have been the rockiest the ever have been. but i am still holding on. I dont even think I like her very much anymore, but I keep remeber our past and how good she was to me than, and I am hoping this is just a phase for her. I mean, she isnt mean to me at the moment, she just... lies around aloot. And her values are a bit fucked up. But with me, we are still best friends. Its just...

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trust/other problems


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 9:54 am

my boyfriend and i had started dating six months ago knowing he would leave for college abd we'd break up. he leaves at the end of june. needless to say, I'm having a hard time. I'm a year younger, 17/f. recently he said he "cares about me and likes me sometimes," because I'm sometimes "clingy,needy, and dramatic." maybe i am. whenever he pulls away or seems distant, i hold on tighter. we got in a weird fight, and i didn't know what to do. i talked to a few friends. he got hurt that i told my friends things he told me in confidence. he's angry. he thinks he still cares about me. idk where my relationship is. we talk sometimes, and he seems almost normal, but then he sways back. he's way too busy to talk often and hang ou...

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Crushing HARD on a stranger


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 9:38 am

26 y/o female.
In the fall, I went in for a job interview at a local store. I instantly felt attracted to the guy giving me the interview. I passed it, but had to turn the job down for reasons not worth mentioning.
A week later, he "followed" me on Facebook. I wasn't sure what his reasoning behind it was, but I decided to add him as a friend. We didn't speak to each other whatsoever, but I always hoped that somehow he'd get a hold of me first.
It never happened, and in the spring, I saw that he took me off his friend's list. Was I annoying? Did he delete me so only his close friends were on his list? It's killing me. I wish I had closure, but I find the idea of outright asking him to be hard. It's been almost...

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Splat hair dye.. NEED ADVICE QUICKLY!


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 8:50 am

I dyed my hair with red splat 2 or 3 days ago trying to get my hair red like ariana grande. Well it came out way too bright. Since it's a direct dye I'm not worried about damaging my hair, so if dyed a dark brown over it would it fix it? What should I do? Please help. I need it fixed NOW. I can't go to a professional so please don't say that. They cost wayyy too much and I don't have the time.

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is there some kind of sex toys


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 6:38 am

Is there some kind of sex toys

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I'm nearly 15 and I haven't had a period yet


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 6:19 am

Hi I'm almost 15 and I haven't had a period yet, it's kind of worrying me I have had discharge for 5 months and I'm starting to think that something it wrong with me. I'm 15 in 3 months and I haven't had a period yet.

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periods


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 6:00 am

i am 10 and have started masturbating does that mean i will start my period soon

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Worried about my period. Haven't had one yet and I'm nearly 15


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 5:15 am

Hi,
I'm kind of worried about my period I am 15 in 3 months and I haven't had my first period yet. I have been getting discharge kind of stuff for 5 months or longer, and yeah I just am worried and kinda feeling like something is wrong. Can some one please tell me what's going on.

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trouble with ex boyfriend


Posted Sunday May 12 2013, 12:38 am

Hey :)
So i dated this guy for 8 months, it was an unhealthy relationship and he yelled at me alot so i broke up with him. I have been dating my current boyfriend now for 9 and a half months and we have a good relationship. My problem is, i was bored one day so i went in facebook and on my ex boyfriends wall there are all these cute pictures of him and his girlfriend and lovey dovey posts they post on each others walls and all that stuff. It has been really bothering me because i feel like was i not good enough or what because he never posted sweet things like that when i was dating him but yet he always claimed he loved me so much. Help me please, thanks

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my niece has an online boyfriend


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 11:57 pm

my niece let's call her Kat she is only 12 years old she told me that she has an online boyfriend and she isn't even allowed to date until she is 16 I mean she is 12. she doesn't live with her mom she lives with me and my mom . could she be doing this for attention because she doesn't live with her mom. also she has other behaviors I am concerned about she's always talking about how she drinks and is always talking about boys. I have caught her smoking ciggerates already what should I do I am only 16

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How can I stop being jealous of this girl?


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 10:34 pm

I have always been jealous of my childhood best friend (we haven't really been friends in the past few years). I still compare myself to her even though we're very different people.

What really irks me is how fake she is. She puts on this act, does things specifically to get a certain reaction out of people, works on her reputation, etc. Thanks to all of the above, though, she's popular and has a great group of friends.

I don't try to be popular, I don't want to be the type of person she acts like, etc. But I do want people to like me and admire me and think I'm cool. I thought college would be my escape, but she's going to the same college as me. It's a big school and I just know I'll see her and hear about her.

How do I get over my jealousy?

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PLZ HELP ME!!!!@


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 9:29 pm

Ok i am 12 and this guy asked me to be his girlfriend but i told him i cant because i am not allowed to but i REALLY like him. I dont know if he still likes me though. I told him i would be his gurlfrind but.... i dont know if he still likes me!!! Help!!!!!

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Twitter app deleting drafts


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 9:03 pm

My Twitter app on my ipad keeps deleting the drafts I save on it after like an hour of not using the app. Nobody else I know has this problem. I've already deleted the app and reinstalled it but it still does it. Help?

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is it illegal for us to have sex?


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 3:56 pm

is it illegal for a 15 year old girl to have sex with a 17 year old guy or an 18 year old guy? thanks

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Missing and Exploited Children


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 2:30 pm

My social work professor opened up to us the other day when she told that when she was eight years old, she had almost gotten kidnapped. If it wasn't for her sister being there and putting up a fight, they would have gotten kidnapped because there was a car that heard her screams and came to their rescue. After she told us her story she took us to the missing and exploited children website and said that we can sign up to help the cause. So, far, all I have seen is where to donate money. I want to volunteer to help out. Is there a place that I can do such thing and if not, do you guys know of anywhere that is similar to that so I can help out there? I really want to give my free time to something very special and prove to me that social work...

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Gun Free Campus


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 2:25 pm

My friend is a senior in college, I am a freshman. There has been a new policy that passed two days ago, letting kids carry concealed weapons on campus. I, as well as my friend, are part of the sociology club at school. So, he is really into current events and such that happen especially on campus. He really wants to wear something under his gown on graduation day that says "Keep (my school) a gun free campus" but he isn't sure about doing such because he thinks they may hold his diploma. So, I am writing in to ask you guys what you think. If they hand it to him and he walks and he opens it when he is at the end of the stage, will they hold it? Once it's in his hands, it's his, right?

Thanks for reading!

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Red splat hair dye.. HELP!


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 12:37 pm

Yesterday I dyed my hair with red splat trying to get my hair like ariana grande. Now it's just wayyyyy to bright my mom got really mad and won't let me go ANYWHERE. I really need to get it faded out a lot so I don't keep getting in trouble. :( I have done the dawn in my hair more then once, washed my hair a million times and I've also done vinegar. I tried the vitamen c thing and it didn't do anything. Please please please help me :(

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Can rodenticide (rat/mouse poison) kill a dog? I think my dog has been poisoned!


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 7:10 am

I really really need to know something, can rodenticides kill a dog??? I'm really worried about this since I think my dog has been poisoned...Thanks in advance.

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Something weird going on?


Posted Saturday May 11 2013, 2:21 am

Well ever since my best friend asked me out and I shot him down things have been extremely awkward between us.And he took another girl to prom and things were even more awkward. Tonight we webcammed for maybe 5 minutes. We went from sending each other over 400 messages a day to maybe 20-50. I don't know what to do! Please help!

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