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trouble with ex boyfriend
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So i dated this guy for 8 months, it was an unhealthy relationship and he yelled at me alot so i broke up with him. I have been dating my current boyfriend now for 9 and a half months and we have a good relationship. My problem is, i was bored one day so i went in facebook and on my ex boyfriends wall there are all these cute pictures of him and his girlfriend and lovey dovey posts they post on each others walls and all that stuff. It has been really bothering me because i feel like was i not good enough or what because he never posted sweet things like that when i was dating him but yet he always claimed he loved me so much. Help me please, thanks
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You guys just weren't right for each other. You and him didn't have what he and his now girlfriend have. Just because he's happy with another girl doesn't mean you weren't good enough. It means that you guys just didn't have that kind of chemistry.
You need to move on, you have your boyfriend right now, focus on him because he wouldn't be with you if he didn't think you were good enough. This guy is in the past and you don't need to go look at his facebook page every once in awhile.
Anyways, let this go and focus on your present.
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ok well ,is often happened is depand on both chemistry may be he was not good with you but do not think about it. care your present boy friend .ex- is your past ,if you have remember past ,never you got happiness so forget your past.i know everyone feel that but you should think about your new boy friend and should make strong relationship with him and improve your weakness which happened in past.i think is a well answer for you and you will forget past and care present. i pray ,best of luck for you
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As long as you allow yourself to find a reason to be held back then you always will be.
To be with someone for 9 months then to one day randomly check in on an old flame indicates you may of never truly moved on. It's over, It has been over for 9 months now. You are with someone else and should be focused on your current relationship. Your ex moved on, He is with someone eles.
In fact for a little while I had done the same thing back 6 years ago when I aplit from my ex of 5 years. I eventually realized that it was completely pointless to check in. I moved on, I found better. Checking in on an old flame is a complete waste of time and to be honest? I couldn't care less. You need to focus on what you have now because if you put yourself backwards you could loose it.
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Some people just dont have the right chemistry together.
Lets use me for an example, in 30 yrs of my past marriage, my ex blamed me that we did not have a good sex life. He wanted me to change my hair, my nose and my boobs, which I chose not to do. He called me frigid. He did not excite to orgasm. I didnt have my 1st orgasm with a man til I left him. Thats when I discovered that this thing called chemistry is for real. The new boyfriends did all the same things the ex did but now i was having hot wild sex and men said I was anything but frigid. Lots of orgasms and learned to squirt too. Was I not good enough? NO, I was not right to begin with.
I am soooo glad I moved on because I now have a husband who calls me a Goddess, bends over backwards to do things for me, is my sexual equal and worships the ground i walk on. You deserve that too. Do you feel the current boyfriend is much of an improvement, if not start looking for someone that puts you up on a pedastal and treats you like a Queen and with whom you have lots in common, you can't stand it to be apart, the mundane things in life is more fun just because he's at your side, and the passion is out of this world. If you're willing to settle for less thats your choice but if you want to be cherished which is why i believe you wrote...then pray for Mr. Right to come along.
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