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I am being abused but...
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 7:19 pm
I feel a bit embarrassed because I am a good 21 years older than most of you, so I feel kinda stupid. I got married a long time ago when I was only 19 to a guy who was in the Marine Corps and he physically abused me for 2 1/2 years, so I am no stranger to being abused. I just want this guy to see how much I love him and that I would do anything for him. Hopefully he will realize it soon before things get way out of hand. My family and friends already know that he is abusive and I have to listen to their lectures about why I should get out and that they don't understand why I am in that relationship. It's seriously hard to explain, but he kinda reminds me of my dad the way he is always putting me down, calling me names, being so negati...
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Kissing
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 7:04 pm
I need some tips from the girls. Are there any special techniques that you use when you're making out with a guy? ILL RATE
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???
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 6:38 pm
I have this friend who thinks shes fat what should i do?
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is this guy interested? LONG story. sorry!
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 5:46 pm
I like this guy since last semester, only to find that he's in my class this semester. yay! so, we kinda sat together (in the middle of the class) for the first few weeks. we even went out for lunch once. then one day he sat at a different seat, saying he likes seating at the edge (side of the class) better. so i sat with him. but my friend told me to be unavailable, so after that, i sat at my usual seat and he sat at his seat at the edge (just one seat apart from each other actually). sometimes, i'll sit next to him, but the next day when i sit at my usual spot, he'll have this disappointed face. then one day, i was feeling miserable so we hung out. then he asked if i wanted to have dinner. we had dinner and he paid for both our meals. as ...
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On hold for now
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 4:35 pm
I met this fantastic guy several months ago. He is so honest and up front about things and we've talked about long-term possibilities. I know he likes me, I like him too. I even told him that if by chance he popped the question, I would say "Yes!" in a heartbeat!! This did not freak him out; in fact, he was glad to hear it and has continued to try and call me whenever he had time or a chance to. He's in the process of taking over a family business right now. It is a priority to him, which has a lot involved and has to be focused on this--this is his bread & butter. It however, has left us with very limited to no time to spend together. Sporadically, he would call me to meet at the very moment he is available, and often times, ...
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my boyfriend is acting weird...
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 4:29 pm
My boyfriend quit smoking weed about 3 weeks ago and he started hanging out with me more and we were so happy for two of the three weeks. This week,he seems not as happy with me and he told me he needed some "space" ,so we didn't hangout for a day. He told me he didn't "want us to get sick of each other" ... so we got in a few fights and tried hanging out today but he just wasn't the same.He just hasn't seemed interested lately and if he does,its usually only for sex or stuff similar.He said he misses smoking weed but idk! I just want him to want me and appreciate me again. What should i do? by the way,we've only been together for like 2-3 months
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hypocrite boyfriend...HELP
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 3:30 pm
My fiance, tends to be quite the hypocrite. Today, for example, I was doing work for him on the computer, and it had to be done fast. My internet was acting up (my luck), my 5 month old was screaming bloody murder, and my dog was barking, so I was frustrated, which for me doesn't happen that often. He calls on his lunch break and asks how it was going. I replied "fine, I'm just frustrated." He could tell i wasn't in the greatest of moods, and said IN THE MEANEST MOST DISRESPECTFUL WAY POSSIBLE, "I don't want to hear that you are frustrated or mad, I don't have time for that *&^@." Again, ON HIS LUNCH BREAK.
Now, let me tell you about him first.
He works EVERYDAY from 8am-8pm. He is an extreme worka...
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Break up
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 2:52 pm
I want to break up with my long distance relationship. There's no real reason..I honestly just don't feel like being in a relationship anymore. I live in the US, he in the Uk. I'm 19, he's 21. We've never met yet, been dating 8 months. He wants me to visit this summer.
I like him, but I don't love him. He LOVES me, he's actually obsessed. It freaks me out in a way. I tried breaking up with him earlier this week by using excuses about school, and he started crying for about 2 hours. So, I gave in. He told me he couldn't breathe, and that he'd come down here immediately and such. I don't WANT that, I'm scared if I break up with him that he'll show up at my door.
He's a very fragile guy, it took him 2 years to ge...
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Help Me Please!
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 10:59 am
Ok so there's this guy I like. He knows I like him and 50% of the time he acts like I'm not in the room. And the other 50% he acts like he wants STUFF for me. I'm head over heels for him and I don't know what to do. Please help me.
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bad relationship
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 1:39 am
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a litle over three years and just last week he told me that he thinks we need a break. He says that he's not happy anymore and that for the time we've been together he's felt tied down like he couldnt do anything.
Recently he has also been texting this girl that we went to high school with and when I ask him he says there just friends. We have an apartment together and he no longer stays home he's always out partying with his friends and this girl. I found a text message on his phone about him staying at this girls house and passing out in the same bed but when i asked him he swears on his life that there only friends, he has no feelings for her and that he would never do anything with her....
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How do I talk to him?!
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 12:16 am
17/f
Okay so I want to get to know this guy in my resource class a little better but don't know what to say!! Jus the fact that he makes me nervous proves I'm kinda crushing a little bit!! Ahhh well here's the thing: he's a soohmore I'm a senior, so we only have one class together and that's resource hour. He sits like a row and a half away too so I can't exactly yell from across the room "Heyy! I think your cute and want to get to know you so here's my number if you want to get to know me too!" I can't bring up other homework to talk bout becousr we have no other classes together!!! His friend whom I helped out gave me his number when I told him I was diggin his friend but I've yet to contact him plus my friend says the gu...
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why?
Posted Thursday March 11 2010, 12:16 am
18/male.
now i don't know why i do what i do, and yet i do it anyways. i have a nice relationship growing with a female friend of mine. and things are going good. and then i always always do or say something stupid to push her away. like tonight for example she said she would call me back in a few minutes as she had to get off the phone momentarily. and so i sat there for a while then my friend rodney came by and asked me if i wanted to go see a movie. and me being the idiot i am went along with it and left this girl who i have such intense feelings for hanging. and so i came back around and tried to talk to her online and she was mad at me which was to be expected. but the point of this question is: why do i do this crap? w...
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Girl Troubles
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 11:10 pm
Me-21/M Her-19/F
So I have been dating this girl for two years. We have been in an on-again-off-again relationship for the past few months. But things were looking up. I had my issues with commitment but things were turning around and in a very good way. But most relationships go that way don't they? Things get tough, but they turn around again and in this case were getting to be much better than they'd ever been. But we had an argument over something stupid. And it's not like it was something that could not be fixed or worked with. But I guess she was tired of it (and I can't blame her we had been coming out of a rough time) and so she left. Just like that she was gone. And so I've been living with an intense emptiness in me...
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kinda like romeo and juliet...
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 10:32 pm
I am a 17 old female. Okay I met my boyfriend about a year and a half ago, he lives about 3 hours away from me so you could kinda say we are long distance. Anyway when I first met him I was young and didn't have anyway to go see him so we remained friends. I didn't tell my mom about him because there was no chance in hell she would let me see him. Well we talked a lot and I really began to like him. About 8 months into knowing him I finally got my chance to see him. I had a car and my sister likes maybe 40 minutes from him so she let me go see him. My mom did know. I saw him and we ended up sleeping together. It wasn't the best choice I know but it happened. After that I was determined to see him, we were pretty much together after that. I ...
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i dont no how to have ps you no phone sex im to shy
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 7:52 pm
ok im a 16 year old girl and i dont no how to have ps like i am horny a lot but i dont no what to say like he seads he wants to eat my you no wath and mi like yes i no and if he seads ok no im stiking my dick in your pussy im like i no you want to like im sorry for speling bad words but thats how i no to spel anay was i did not have sex with hem i will have sex win im marideed so i have not haved sex with no one yeat but he is the one im going too marie but i just have ps or i just cant moon for hem plees hellp me
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Dont know what to say?
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 7:15 pm
Well i like this guy who is a year older then me and goes to my school and his locker is across from mine , so he smiles at me sometimes so i poked him him on facebook and then inboxed him after a few pokes and said you know, ill win this poke war ;) and then he said
i think your mistaken i will not give up:) so i fed off that and kept talking about that but now i have NO idea what to talk about
plz help! <3
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i have never.....
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 12:59 pm
Okay im truning 16 on august 3rd and i have never ever had my first kiss.nore have i dated anyone.i have opened my options to girls too.so im bisexual and still havent dated anyone or had my first kiss.is that something to be ashamed of?
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This one guy!
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 8:57 am
Alright so I'm 17 y ears and I don't believe in love for my age yet.
I don't date at all because I find it useless , it's just my perspective.
So I met this guy lets call him "S", (was out with most of ma friends and he came along)
Well S is hot and yeah I am the kind of person who cares about looks so sue me.
I kinda have drinking issues that I know of and we were at a party and i was wasted. I don't remember clearly what happened but I do remember dancing with S.
Now H is a really good friend of mine, he is a male and my best friend. He can become over protective sometimes of me. I sometimes suspect that he has feelings for me but I made it clear to him that I do...
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First Girl I Had A Crush On...likes Someone Else
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 3:18 am
[I met this girl, shes in my class too and we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, i was attracted to her and she has a nice personality and right when i found out she experimented with girls a lot back then and shes bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it. One day she was sitting down in a chair and i was walking i gave her a hug and i almost knocked her over because i usually hug her tight all the time and right about to give hera hug and say bye she puckered her lip to me but i didnt do anything so ended up her lips touching my neck and when i walked away she said "YOU KNOW YOU LIKE IT!" and after that nothing like that ...
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Finally taking the plunge.
Posted Wednesday March 10 2010, 12:22 am
19/female. Nick is 18.
We've been friends for about 3-4 years now. he's actually a senior in high school and i'm a sophomore in college, yeahhh please don't comment on the age difference that's not my problem right now!! plus i'm doing online so its not like i'm far away from him.
anyways nick would always be really flirty with me like all the time. neither of us have said we liked each other but this attraction has been going on for like 2 years now. girls have come and gone but i've always been there. well now there is this other girl who i feel threatened by and i feel like he needs to choose between me or her because i'm done with this crap. this girl is honestly really immature, not pretty at all and i'm not just ...
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