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First Girl I Had A Crush On...likes Someone Else
[I met this girl, shes in my class too and we started being friends and we hug eachother a lot, i was attracted to her and she has a nice personality and right when i found out she experimented with girls a lot back then and shes bisexual i got my hopes up and i really dont know why, now im having thoughts about me kissing her at times and i really want to try it. One day she was sitting down in a chair and i was walking i gave her a hug and i almost knocked her over because i usually hug her tight all the time and right about to give hera hug and say bye she puckered her lip to me but i didnt do anything so ended up her lips touching my neck and when i walked away she said "YOU KNOW YOU LIKE IT!" and after that nothing like that really happened anymore was she trying to kiss me? and am i bisexual or bicurious? we tend to hug a lot,sometimes we hold hands but we barely talk because i just met her a month ago. Im sure she doesnt like me because she doesn't like anyone right now, i never felt like this with a girl before. I'm really confused.]
That was my last post, well now we've been talking as friends but when we hug its really different now, its like she lets go when she used to hug me longer than that. Mostly we talk and joke around but thats about it, and now i found out that she likes someone else/ found her lover and i feel...i dont know disappointed and mad and i just dont now what to do anymore, i only felt this feeling for a guys and im pretty surprised that im feeling this towards her, im reallly disappointed and sad, i guess ill just become better friends with her because i cant do anything about it..... what can i do stop feeling this way and just be close friends with her?
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Spend less time around her for a little while, but keep talking and basically showing her that you like her and want to be her friend. Spend the extra time hanging out with other people, meeting new people, and trying to find someone else you're attracted to.
Once you find someone you like, you forget about old crushes generally.
Then there's always the "sit her down and tell her you wish you'd kissed her, and yes you did like it" approach.
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When your not sure if your bi or not this is called bi-curious. A lot of people go through wondering wether or not they are into guys or girls. Experiment and figure out what you like. Talk to her and ask her how she feels about you. If she just sees you as a friend then thats ok its better to have friends then relationships anyways. So keep your chin up and dont sweat it hunny!
Hope i helped (:
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Just get her alone and kiss her
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