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kinda like romeo and juliet...
I am a 17 old female. Okay I met my boyfriend about a year and a half ago, he lives about 3 hours away from me so you could kinda say we are long distance. Anyway when I first met him I was young and didn't have anyway to go see him so we remained friends. I didn't tell my mom about him because there was no chance in hell she would let me see him. Well we talked a lot and I really began to like him. About 8 months into knowing him I finally got my chance to see him. I had a car and my sister likes maybe 40 minutes from him so she let me go see him. My mom did know. I saw him and we ended up sleeping together. It wasn't the best choice I know but it happened. After that I was determined to see him, we were pretty much together after that. I continued to go see him about every other weekend without my mother knowing. It became harder and harder to stay away even though I knew I was doing wrong by not telling her. I fell for him the more I got to see him. Well after christmas he moved a little farther away but we both agreed to stay together. We were going to make it work. I was going to tell my mom when I was eighteen because then she couldn't do anything about it. Well the second time I go to see him I get caught. I covered my ass by saying I was somewhere else and drove home, that way I could keep him out of the mix. That night I came home I ended up telling her about him, I was scared I'd never get the chance to see him again. I didn't tell her that I had snuck off to see him, just that I had seen him once before. She agreed to let me see him if she came with. So a couple weeks later we go up there she drops me off and goes to the hotel. We spent a normal day together and she picked me up. Just recently she found out that I slept with him while I was there and now she won't let me see him. I have no car anymore since I got into an asccident. So I can't sneak if I wanted to. I really care about him and it will kill me to not see him until I'm eighteen. I have 8 months until then. I don't know what to do.
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Ouch. This is a tough one. Yup, it may have been a bad choice for sleeping with him; but, if you really love him, you'll both wait. Stay in contact as long as possible until you turn eighteen and go from there.
That's all I got for ya hun,
Good luck!
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Just be patient. It seems you really love him and thats a good thing. If he loves you as much as you love him, he'll wait for you and stand by you throughout this tough times. And your mum is probably just so shocked by the fact you and your boyfriend are having a really serious relationship, that she is giving you a hard time. But im sure your mother loves you and just wants the best for you. Keep a sincere relationship with your man, and your mum will eventually give in. Once your mum cools down, properly introduce your man to her. If you love him that much, im sure your mum will adore him too.
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