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Girl Troubles
Me-21/M Her-19/F
So I have been dating this girl for two years. We have been in an on-again-off-again relationship for the past few months. But things were looking up. I had my issues with commitment but things were turning around and in a very good way. But most relationships go that way don't they? Things get tough, but they turn around again and in this case were getting to be much better than they'd ever been. But we had an argument over something stupid. And it's not like it was something that could not be fixed or worked with. But I guess she was tired of it (and I can't blame her we had been coming out of a rough time) and so she left. Just like that she was gone. And so I've been living with an intense emptiness in me for about a week or more now. And I just want to know. How can i win her back? Or if not how can i move on?
Just a side note. I love this girl with all that I am, always have, and it's terrible going without.
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It's definitely normal for things to get tough. She may have left because she felt like things would not get better or because she was not interested in putting in the work to make things better. Sometimes girls flee because they are scared. You need to identify the reason she left before you try and win her back. If she is no longer interested in trying to make it work then there is no hope except that maybe she will spend time away from you and realize she really does want to try. If she feels like things will not improve or if she is scared then she needs reassurance. Tell her how much you love her and how willing you are to work with her to make things as great as they were when you first fell in love. Do not beg or plead but calmly talk to her about things you two can do together to make it worthwhile. Talk to her about happy times you guys have had and how great it can feel to be in love and share things with someone that close to you. How wonderful it is to have someone who will love you endlessly and support you no matter what. In the end it is her choice and all you can do is explain how wonderful you feel with her. Good Luck :)
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You've gotten be a Romeo son.
Show her how you truly feel. If she loves you back, she'll forgive you and take you back like that. **snap** :)
Good luck dear,
Let me know if you need further advice.
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She should of given you both the chance to try & make things work instead of leaving so quickly she
should of thought of you & not only herself even though she was tired of it i think you should contact her and say that you love her very much & you always have and you'd like it if she gave you another chance to try and work things out for both of your sakes i think you deserve another chance if contacting her doesn't work then that just means things weren't meant to be between you two you can't force it & you can't beat yourself up over it if they weren't meant to be there's plenty of other girls out there and you'll always have many chances to date that's if you choose to yes it may hurt now because it just happened but evenually the hurt your feeling will fade away & you'll move on(:
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