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Will I know it's the 'right time?'


Posted Sunday June 23 2013, 2:49 pm

I am 16. My bf is 19, we have been together for over 3 years. I love him very much, with all my heart. He has NEVER forced, pressured or even suggested we have sex, even though I've been 16 for over half a year. He always says, he is only ready when he is sure I am ready... but how will I know?

My mum is ok with it all, she really likes my bf, she says he treats me right. She has always said that when I am ready I will know, and as long as it is for love, and protected, she is ok with me having sex.

But how do I know? In my head it is like:

- I am scared (will it hurt? will I be good? what do I do? will i feel different after?)

- I am confused (we have done other stuff... I like...

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I don't know who to believe!


Posted Sunday June 23 2013, 2:34 pm

I have a male friend (we'll call him Bob), and a female friend (we'll call her Jane)They are not really friends with each other/ don't know each other well. But Janes best friend went out with Bob for a while. Thier relationship was on and off. Now Bob is the kind of guy who goes out with a lot of girls (never at the same time though)

Recently Bob broke up with a girl. She said it was because he showed her his you know what on web cam... but he said she showed him her you know whats too... then he broke up with her becasue she lied to everyone and made him out to be a perv... I believed him.

But now, I found out from Jane that he had told her friend that they could work it out, and that they should have sex s...

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i can't be my self around my family and i don't understanding why.


Posted Sunday June 23 2013, 6:16 am

I'm fine when I'm at home i can talk to my partner an kids. but when I'm with my family that I was bought up with, like my cousin aunty uncle's my dad even,I just can't talk, and be my self I'm shy I start sweating, if im talking to someone I can't think probably. and when I speak my word's come out stupid.an my eye's start to water when I do talk to them,what's wrong with me.

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I don't know what to do.


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 10:27 pm

I'm staring off with the fact that I'm a female and 16 years old. OK, so me and my boyfriend who I love very much were kind of in an argument. He said he was going to go have sex with other b******, he then said he was playing around. I took it seriously, I was really upset, and still am now. I don't know if I should still be with him. He told me that he was really sorry and he didn't mean it. He felt really bad I noticed in his eyes. But anyways I haven't talked to him since this happened, I told him to just leave and go home. What should I do ? Should I forgive him ? Was it a little accident ?

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Is my IQ score average?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 10:19 pm

Im a 13 year old girl and I took an IQ test the other day. I scored 133. Is this an average score? Im very nervous that it might be below average.

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Should I lay off dating for a while


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 8:57 pm

F. 16.
I recently got in to a relationship, 3 months after I split from my ex of 6 months. I fell in deeply emotionally with my ex boyfriend. Cut the story straight, I don't see or speak to my ex and I don't have a problem. He still crosses my mind everyday everyday the tine, but when I see him, I get quite upset. Every time he sends me a message, my hearts beat really fast, not through excitement though. He sent me a message, telling me he missed me and he asked if I still cared. It made me become so hot, like a hot flush and I started crying. He didn't want to know me before, when we were together, we didn't quite work out. It was his emotions, it was like he was emotionally unavailable. Anyway, I really do like my boyfriend at the...

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Sex


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 8:24 pm

Question for you women will you sleep with me

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Why my grandmother and mother want me to be something which im not.


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 4:41 pm

Okay im 13 and every since i was like 7 to now. My grandmother and mother always wanted me to be something that i not wanted to be. They always wanted me to be a girly girl. I am a girl. I just don't like to wear skirts and i have a good reasons why i don't. Everytime we go to a clothing store. Here they go this pink shirt is cute. I say i don't llike pink. I love purple. Here they go what type of girl don't like pink. Every girl love pink. Everybody how do i get them off my back and how do i explain them that im not girly girl. Please help.

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How can you know she's ready


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 4:39 pm

Am from S.A.(cape town)Am a guy am(17)and my girlfriend (15) we've bin datin' for 2 years and six months and i think its time for us to have sex but i dont if shez ready nd i thnk of askin her bt am afraid it myt freak hr out,nd i dont want to lose her.thank you plz help

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Which is the best products for my face?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 4:22 pm

Hello everyone i am 13 and my acne have really came in. My pores are so greasey and oily. And when i bust one bump more come up. So please anyone what is the best methods or products is best for my face.

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Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:54 pm

i think being in a relatioship is very special and think I should wait for the right guy but I've been masturbating recently and I am egar for sex I'm 16 and a virgin and these urges I have tell me I need sex but I really want to wait for mr right I tried masturbation but the urges are still there are there any other ways I can control these urges ?

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spots


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:51 pm

Hi I'm a vergin and I keep developing spots on my vagina but they come and go it can't be swet spots because I got in the bath every 2 days what can it be ?

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sex


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:49 pm

Me and this boy want sex but we can't have it at home because our parents are always in the house because they work at home is their any places we should try?

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how do you make a guy hard?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:46 pm

I want to know what's the easiest way to get a guy hard.? Thanks

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i love him


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:32 pm

I love thos boy so much but I don't know how to tell him. I don't think he's had experiance with girl so I'm not sure which way to go about it ?

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russian hampster


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:30 pm

Hello. I have a russian hampster and she squeaks everytime I put my hand in the cage to feed him! Why does she do this. I have never hurt her and don't have any children or animals which can spook her so why does she keep on squeking?

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masturbation


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:27 pm

I'm a girl and I really like this boy. why do I masturbate everyday when I think of him? Am I in love or just experiancing something?

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Protective boyfriend?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:26 pm

17/m

So I have friends that are girls, they all say they want a protective boyfriend. Now I kind of know what they mean by that but also I'm still confused because some say they want one but then they get a guy then say their too overprotective or obsessed or something like that.

What is a general idea of a protective boyfriend?

Could you give me examples lol

Thank you

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love?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 3:25 pm

Right this is a tricky situation! This boy who goes to my school and I've know for like 2 years has recently admitted he fancies me :D but I used to like hoim but not anymore. When I said I didn't like him anymore he said that it dosnt matter he has a girlfriend anyway but that was the same day he said he likes me and wanted to be with me ? Has he really got a girlfriend or did he just say that because I rejected him! And how can you tell if someone actually likes you?? Thanks for your help! :)

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Pen Pals: Is it possible to fall for him?


Posted Saturday June 22 2013, 2:41 pm

So yesterday I created my ad on PenPalsNow.com for myself. And I looked up people in my age group. Checking a couple pages, I came across this boy from the UK. He seems like a really nice guy. And so cool at that. I was wondering...

...is it possible to fall for him? I mean if we talk a while, then send photos and maybe Skype?

By the way, I'm a sixteen year old female.

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