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i think being in a relatioship is very special and think I should wait for the right guy but I've been masturbating recently and I am egar for sex I'm 16 and a virgin and these urges I have tell me I need sex but I really want to wait for mr right I tried masturbation but the urges are still there are there any other ways I can control these urges ?
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If you just recently started masturbating you have a whole relationship to develop with yourself and it goes deeper then you could Imagine. How have you already tried masturbating? Do you experience orgasms when you masturbate? There are many different ways to masturbate. If your doing correctly you can achieve orgasm and sexual satisfaction every time!! Women have 5 erogenous zones in the body to receive orgasms. Each of them produce a different type of orgasm, you can get a book on the female anatomy and female sexuality and experiment with new ways of discovering your body. I read a book called "tickle my fancy," and it really taut me many new ways to masturbate and it was amazing!!! I learned new ways using my hand using a toy and using my shower head ;) I think you do need to be at least 18 years old to buy this book so see if an older sibling will help you get it? Perhaps your mom is someone you could talk with that might help you? You can explore pornography and discover what type of erotic situations turn you on. You can also explore your own fantasy while you masturbate, discover what you like to think about.
Basically you and your body are in for a long life together. Get to know it, your on the right track! Your having a very hormonal time in your young adult hood and this is normal. So masturbate a lot! Develop a good solid relationship with your body and sexuality and some day you will find that guy you want to loose your virginity with. Be patient and always remember if your doing it right masturbating is never boring and it's a wonderful way to experience an orgasm, sexual satisfaction and relieve your urges.
Good luck honey :)
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