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want to get back with an ex...
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 8:13 pm
My bf broke up with me almost 5 weeks ago and i miss him like crazy. We were friends and hungout and stuff and he told me i was the first girl he's ever been in love with but he's so confused and see's me as a friend but im still the coolest girl he's ever met. We see eachother everyday and hangout a lot for being broken up. We got in a fight though and he said the friends thing isnt working because he feels bad because he feels like i want more than a friendship with him and i always bring up our relationship ,etc.I lied and said that i didn't want him back and i didn't know it bothered him that i talked about our past..I feel like i overwhelmed him with our relationship because he never had one like the one he had with me .I feel like he ...
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rocky area, clingy plus unexperienced boy :/
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 6:57 pm
i have been dating this guy for maybe two months and official for the last month of it. plus he is a bit over a year younger than me and alot more immature, before him i was in a two year long relationship so im not really sure if its regularly like this between couples.. he is very clingy and instantly said he loved me, he talks so akwardly to my friends which i say friends before boyfriends, to be honest he laughed at the word poop as graffiti and with pretzles acted like a walrus at a party i brought him to, he wears bright purple and red everyother day, but he is so sweet and the top freshman football player he maxes at weights and can bench over nearly three of me and i lovee his muscles, he is so nice though he comes up to me and hold...
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pics with other girls
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 6:32 pm
me and my boyfriend have been together a little over a year and 4 months. hes 18 and im 17. he jus recently like 2 or 3 weeks ago started night school. well today he uploaded a couple of pics on myspace and they are of him and 2 girls from school. there not touching there like sitting next to eachother like in class. but one pic one of the girls is wearing his hat. im not sure if im over thinking which i happen to do alot. but i remember how he used to post all these pics of him and these 2 girls that lived by him and him with a couple of his friends that are girls. hes one of those guys that every girl likes and he has a bunch of friends that are girls., but im like 99% sure he wont cheat on me. but lately alot we been fighting and getting...
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not MAN enough???
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 5:03 pm
19/f - I'll try to keep this short, but I don't want to leave things out!
I've been dating my boyfriend for 8 months now and we got very serious very fast (we talk about marriage, the future, etc), we are completely in love, which is what makes this so hard for me. There is just one issue that I can't get off my mind and I don't know if it is a red flag or if I should try to look past it because what we have is so special.
I was raised in a very strict and very loyal family and I was raised to believe that you always stand up for what you believe in and you fight for the people that you love. Because of this I am a very strong woman, and I expect men to be strong men.
What attracted me to my boyfrien...
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Regret?
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 3:51 pm
(19F)
Last night I stayed at my cousin's house with her and her boyfriend. I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years and just recently met another guy. This new guy is amazing. Well, last night he came over to where I was staying and we hung out. We ended up going to get some drinks and when we got back we fooled around in his truck. Later on, after my cousin and her boyfriend went to bed and we ended up having sex. He stayed with me almost all night and I thoroughly enjoyed what we did, but this morning when I woke up I was feeling regret.
I want to stay with my current boyfriend, should I tell him what happened or should I leave it alone and just move on?
Thank you
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not real sure what he wants
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 12:30 pm
kinda long!!
Hey guys, im 18/f and the guy i like is 17. Okay well last year right after my birthday he texts me.. Of course i didnt know who it was and everything, but i knew who he was. I was a senior and he was a sophomore. Well we started texting and even hung out a few times.. I started to really like him. I just broke up with my boyfriend of almost three years when me and him started "talking." We had sex a few times and I just really liked him. Well i fell for my ex again and got back together. Me and my ex are now apart again and me and Ky started talking again.
I messed up; I wanted to hang out this past weekend and told him to text me if he wasnt gonna do anything. Well I find out he went to taco bell with...
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am i a friend or not?
Posted Tuesday April 27 2010, 1:41 am
okay i went to this awake-a-ton and meet this guy, hes 17 and im only 14. we got on great and were really open to each other. I only had known him for a day b4 he asked me for my home number msn, facebook ect. hes called several times and talks asthough he likes me.... the problem is he has a gf. he lives far away so im not sure what to do.... is it normal for a guy to call a girl/hug ect when he has a gf... how do i find out if he likes me .. without him thinking im a foulish teen ??
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18/f, dating after abuse
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 11:08 pm
To make my love life over the course of high school short, 8th grade I dated a guy (for 6 months) who was an airhead. Freshman to sophomore year I dated a guy (1 year) who was mentally/physically abusive and also raped me. I should also mention he took my virginity. I ended sophomore year on a bad note of one night stands that were alcohol induced out of depression. I started junior year off by dating the same airhead from 8th grade until we ended it about 2 months ago (I'm now a senior).
I feel myself slipping back into what happened to me sophomore year (drunk hookups based off of my need for intimacy). Often guys that I'm friends with will ask why I hate hugs, hand holding, any form of touching. I can't stand to be touched by gu...
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Crazy ex?
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 10:55 pm
Today - My ex girlfriend decides to leave a box of all the things I've ever given her: Notes, a $55 dollar pair of shoes she never wore, birthday cards, etc. I don't know what to do about this - AND she's started hangning out with my bestfriend... I'm not sure what to do about her. And I don't want her to interfere with my and my bestfriends relationship of 8 years...What do I do?
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Stupid, Lovestruck Question
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 10:29 pm
There's this guy...(oh I can't believe I'm asking this)...and I really like him. And i've liked him for a looong time. And of course, we've never dated. There were serveral different rumors about him asking me out (of course, before I liked him) but that was quite a while ago. Anyways, my number one buddy has been telling me that she thinks he likes me. I don't know. But I wanna know.
How do you tell a 14 year old boy likes you?
-M:]
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Why hasn't he called for two days? Helllppp!
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 8:11 pm
So, for those that didn't read my previous question, it might be a good idea.
But basically, I dated this guy two years ago. I was 16 going on 17 and he was 17 just turning 18. We had a good relationship. Dated 6-7 months. I don't know if I loved him or not..but I definitely had strong feelings for him.
So, I broke up with him because lack of communication and we were fighting basically for three weeks. And afterwards, I told him how I shouldn't have made such a rash decision and I told him how I felt...three times since we've broken up. And three times I've been rejected or given bullshit answers.
ANYWAYS, that's the short story and like I said, reading my previous question would be a good thing. :) AND...
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3 year anniversary
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 5:04 pm
f/17 and m/20. okay so it's my fiance and i's 3 year anniversary in september. i'm low on cash right now but i'll have enough money by then but the problem is i don't have any ideas on what to get him. i've done the photo album and a huge blanket. i really want to get him something that has the date we first started going out. i can't do bracelets because his sister and brother-in-law did that for their anniversary except they have their names and their kids' names. anything at all would be helpful. thanks!
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major teen problems
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 4:55 pm
I was so happy at one point,I had found my first boyfriend and we were so happy and had so much fun.He broke up with me over a month ago ,because he apparently just stopped liking me as much but told me im the first girl he's ever loved and first girl he's really had feelings for (all his friends told me this was true and he'd never been in a serious relationship either).Ofcourse since i had no idea he was going to do this,I was devastated. We began talking and hanging out all the time and stuff but he just doesn't want to get back together and told me that every time we're together he feels like he hurts me because he knows i want more than just a friendship with him and that i always talk about when we were dating etc.I lied to his face a...
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boyfriend has embarrassing photos
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 1:20 pm
I completely take responsibility, as it’s my own fault, no one else’s.
I am with a guy, but he treats me crap.
I mean really, like total crap.
I’ve finally found the courage to break up with him, until I remembered that, earlier in the relationship, I let him take some….embarrassing photos of me.
I’m now kicking myself for being so naive in trusting him, and I can’t break up with him, in case he holds these photos against me.
I know this was stupid, so spare the lecture, I’ve certainly learned my lesson.
What do I do?
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He's With Her Now
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 9:46 am
Me and this guy AJ were dating for about a month and a week. In that month we spent everyday together, and if we weren't together we were talking to each other. He became my best friend, my confident, and so much more. He is the first one I've ever opened up fully to. He knew everything, and I never lied to him.
Well last week I found out he was talking to his ex, and that thursday they hung out, when we were supposed to hang out because I had had a rough day, well friday he broke up with me.
I gave him his stuff yesterday, sunday, and we talked a tiny bit, and then he was gone...
I've talked to his ex, she talks to me, and she knew that me and him were going out at the time...
but yet for some reason i cant hate...
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In love with a boy leaving the country forever.
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 9:36 am
The boy I am in love with finished school in 2 weeks. He goes back to his home country because he was only here on a student visa. He doesn't like America. So he wants to leave. But I haven't told him how I feel because I am scared. He has already mentioned before that I seem ready to run away with him and he like me but he isn't ready to run away with me. what do I do?
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if he's jealous should i give him another chance?
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 7:00 am
A while back, i was dating this guy exclusively, but we didn't call it a relationship. as time went on, he became more distant. he started bailing on plans multiple times a week, and basically only texted me to tell me he was too busy to hang out again, or to try to see me if it was friday or saturday night. i tried everything to deal with it, i suggested we study together if he was too busy to do anything else, i tried being more present in his life, then less, finally tried to detach myself completely. when that failed, i realized he didn't care about me and ended it. he said that after 4 months, he still couldn't be emotionally invested because i'm going abroad next year.
it's been a month, and i tried to move on. i met s...
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Secretly dating a coworker.. =/
Posted Monday April 26 2010, 2:52 am
20/f
I started working at my retail store back in January and I became close friends with one of the assistant managers, who's 19/m. We got very very close and I really fell hard for him. We started dating a few weeks ago (our one month is coming up next week), and our friends and families know about it and support us. But he doesn't want to make it "facebook" official or let anyone at work know because he's scared our manager will fire one of us or both of us. I don't see this as being likely because we're both good employees, and our manager knows that my bf used to date another one of the girls we work with and he never said anything.
How can I convince my bf to at least try to see if we can be ful...
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I want to break up with him
Posted Sunday April 25 2010, 11:40 pm
(20yr old female)
I like a guy (Kevin). I have been talking to him for a couple of years now, though I never met him in person yet. It has been inconvenient to meet with him, and I have parents who are trying very much to protect me and dont allow me to meet with guys at all (unless they have met him and have gotten to know him).
I am in a relationship with a guy (Qua'Nell). He has been my friend for a while and has always hoped for a more than friend relationship with me. He is really sweet. I have hung out with him without my parents knowing, and eventually we arranged for him to come over to meet my parents, which he did.
I am going out with him because for a period of time ...
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American women vs. foreign women.
Posted Sunday April 25 2010, 11:31 pm
this might be kinda long so bear with me :)
i have just realized that the main reason why i dont get along with girls my age and dont even get any of them, is not because of me, its because of how they are. i realized that american girls are pretty much sluts, stereotypical, materialistic, insincere, self-centered, and only care about a guy with eitehr a full-on sixpack, or a guy with a ton of money. (Sorry, american women, that's just my opinion.)
i know this might not matter to me, or it shouldnt, but im only 16 years old and in high school, but i've dont some traveling to different countries to see what its like, and what people are like. I went to thailand last summer and all i can say about the people, wow...
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