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Crazy ex?
Today - My ex girlfriend decides to leave a box of all the things I've ever given her: Notes, a $55 dollar pair of shoes she never wore, birthday cards, etc. I don't know what to do about this - AND she's started hangning out with my bestfriend... I'm not sure what to do about her. And I don't want her to interfere with my and my bestfriends relationship of 8 years...What do I do?
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Nothing. Toss the crap she gave you out, and ignore her. She's trying to show you that she's over you even though she isn't, and it'll only result in drama.
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Just like Dani said below me, When a woman returns the items that her boyfriend had bought for her it means she has moved on. As far as your friend, If he is as good as a friend that you say he is the he would probably show your some respect. If your best friend chooses to be with her then obviously he wasn't that great of a friend all along. What to do with the items that were returned to you? The shoes, See if you can find someone else who wears the same size or wants the shoes. If you still have the receipt then you can possibly return them and get your money back. There really isn't much you can do if your friend chooses to hang out with your ex, If you try to end it then it will only cause you more stress and in the end you have nothing but chaos and your friend could very well end up resenting you for it.
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She is obviously trying to prove to you she is over you, hoping it will affect you. When a girl does this, she is trying to show you that, giving you all things that remind her of you, back to you. she is giving herself closure. and as you know, she isn't over you when she is trying to prove she is over you. Now, as far as the best friend thing goes, she is just trying to bother you. She is using your best friend to show him she is over you, so he can relay her actions to you in a subtle, inconspicuous way. Your friend probably doesn't realize this and doesn't mean any harm to your friendship. So talk to him and let him know what's up and that it makes your uncomfortable. If you don't mind them hanging out, tell him not to mention it to you. If you do mind it, then tell him you don't want him to and that she is merely using him to get at you. If he is a realllly great best friend, he will definently back off and stop it. =] Girls are petty and tricky. So just remember this and be flattered she is going through great efforts to make you notice her. I hope this helps at all.
Obviously Dani.
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