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Gender: Female
Age: 22
Member Since: April 26, 2010
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Last Update: April 27, 2010
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So About two or three weeks ago me and my boyfriend were fooling atound in my room. Well he was rubbing his dick around my vagina. But thats all he did. But he had precum on his dock and he said he got it all off. Then he did that again. But its april 26 and im supposed to get my period tomorrow april 27. And im nervous. But my period is irregular. So what are the chances that i could be pregnant? Thannks in advanced (link)
Notttt impossible, but totallllly unlikely. You aren't pregnant.


so my best friend and i are going to be going to the same college in the fall. i never really wanted this to happen, but i got wait listed at my first choice so this was one of my only options. she had been switching back and forth between commuting and dorming, and she finally chose dorming. i was always set on dorming just because i want that experience. now...she says she wants to room with me. i love my best friend to death, but i don't know if this is a good idea. hopefully we would get a suite so i would share a room with her and then have 4 other girls in 2 other rooms in the suite, but still. she says she would go home a lot and everything.

i don't know what to do. part of me would love to room with her and other girls, but sometimes when we are together i feel like we are competing. i've always been shy so i was hoping that being on my own with ALL new people i would just be able to open up and everything. i dont want her rooming with me to hold me back from doing what i want to do. neither of us are big partiers/drinkers, but i would LOVE to attend lots of parties and maybe even join a sorority.

ive also heard lots of stories about best friends being roommates and it tearing them apart, and i definitely dont want that to happen.

i dont know what to do. should i room with her and hopefully end up with 4 other girls in a suite? or should i just tell her i don't want to room with her at all? (link)
I have lived with my best friend, whom I've known since the 4rth grade for the past three years while in school! And we wouldn't have it any other way. Seriously, it's all about compromise. You all have been raised differently and probably have a lot of different routines. but just do what we did, make a pact to communicate effectively rather than getting mad and letting it all build up and then blowing up on one another. =] Seriously. If you all just talk about some ground rules and communicate, it will be perfect. Don't always listen to the bad you hear. Things work out differently for everyone. hope this helps.

Obviously Dani


Today - My ex girlfriend decides to leave a box of all the things I've ever given her: Notes, a $55 dollar pair of shoes she never wore, birthday cards, etc. I don't know what to do about this - AND she's started hangning out with my bestfriend... I'm not sure what to do about her. And I don't want her to interfere with my and my bestfriends relationship of 8 years...What do I do? (link)
She is obviously trying to prove to you she is over you, hoping it will affect you. When a girl does this, she is trying to show you that, giving you all things that remind her of you, back to you. she is giving herself closure. and as you know, she isn't over you when she is trying to prove she is over you. Now, as far as the best friend thing goes, she is just trying to bother you. She is using your best friend to show him she is over you, so he can relay her actions to you in a subtle, inconspicuous way. Your friend probably doesn't realize this and doesn't mean any harm to your friendship. So talk to him and let him know what's up and that it makes your uncomfortable. If you don't mind them hanging out, tell him not to mention it to you. If you do mind it, then tell him you don't want him to and that she is merely using him to get at you. If he is a realllly great best friend, he will definently back off and stop it. =] Girls are petty and tricky. So just remember this and be flattered she is going through great efforts to make you notice her. I hope this helps at all.

Obviously Dani.


Ok so stupidly me and my boyfriend had sex whilst on my period (obviously it was in the time i wasnt taking birth control pills) Ive looked online and im worrying because I saw that the birth control pill can kill a baby when your pregnany, seriously harm it or cause miscariages.

What if I am pregnant? We only had sex 2 days ago so I wont be able to take a pregnacy test but If I am pregnant I dont want to harm the baby. Im meant to be taking the pill starting today.. I dont know what to do. Should I stay off it until I take a test? I am still on my period atm and the only thing that makes me stop my period is the pill. I dont know when I can take a test to find out... does anybody know? (link)
Hey! the probability of you getting pregnant on your period is slim to none. Your egg has already dropped and since you are flowing, it will be exceptionally hard for the sperm to travel upstream and considering you don't have an egg readily available to fertilize, and sperm can only live in your body a few days, I doubt you are pregnant. Now if you are still worried, I would not continue on the pill nor have sex until you take a pregnancy test a few days before your next period . But the time you are ovulating is about 2 weeks after your menstrual. So I'm going to say that you are not pregnant. And I wouldn't worry too much about it at all girl. seriously. just relax. and remember to keep it safe always. =] hope this helped in the least.

ObviouslyDani.


Everyone is in love with my eyes. They're big, sparkly, and an olive green, with copper brown around the iris. I want to bring out this quality, cuz it's one of my only good ones appearance-wise...so what are some ideas to make my eyes..I don't know...pop out more? I'll appreciate any ideas
-M:] (link)
I have the same color eyes! The best shadows to bring out your eye color are purples, pinks, browns. Stay away from cool colors on the color wheel. Go more towards the warm. You don't want to use green eye shadows(cool colors) bc it will blend your eye and eyelids together. and it is super tacky. But wearing green accesories isn't a bad idea. Hope this helps.




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