Me and this guy AJ were dating for about a month and a week. In that month we spent everyday together, and if we weren't together we were talking to each other. He became my best friend, my confident, and so much more. He is the first one I've ever opened up fully to. He knew everything, and I never lied to him.
Well last week I found out he was talking to his ex, and that thursday they hung out, when we were supposed to hang out because I had had a rough day, well friday he broke up with me.
I gave him his stuff yesterday, sunday, and we talked a tiny bit, and then he was gone...
I've talked to his ex, she talks to me, and she knew that me and him were going out at the time...
but yet for some reason i cant hate either of them.. & i still love him to death..
I want so badly to talk to him just one more time to get some kinda answer, or let him know how i feel. He didnt respond to a text i sent him, and i havent tried calling. I dont know if hell answer, and i think the only reason we broke up is because of her and i think she won't let him talk to me now..
what do i do? we were attached at the hip, and now im left with no one to talk to really..
is there a way i can make him talk to me or something?
any advice is greatly appreciated. :)
Additional info, added Monday April 26 2010, 11:41 am: Also, I think about it all the time, there is not a minute in the day where I cant stop thinking about it, and it has only been like 4 days.
I cry at least two times a day. And everything I do reminds me of him. I could go mcdonalds, dominoes, in my room, look at a dandelion on the ground and etc. and all I do is think of him, and sometimes end up crying. And I'll be day dreaming or thinking of something that would make me happy or that would make him happy and I'll have tears in my eyes and start crying, even if they are happy thoughts.. its bad.... Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sunshine1232 answered Monday April 26 2010, 8:30 pm: I think you should try to text or call him again you deserve a explaination a answer to why he was
hanging out with his ex when he was clearly in a relationship and why he blew you off for his ex yes
now it may hurt but evenually the hurt your feeling will fade away and you'll move on there's plenty of
other boys out there try keeping yourself busy so you aren't constantly thinking about it even though
it's tough(: [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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