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boyfriend has embarrassing photos
I completely take responsibility, as it’s my own fault, no one else’s.
I am with a guy, but he treats me crap.
I mean really, like total crap.
I’ve finally found the courage to break up with him, until I remembered that, earlier in the relationship, I let him take some….embarrassing photos of me.
I’m now kicking myself for being so naive in trusting him, and I can’t break up with him, in case he holds these photos against me.
I know this was stupid, so spare the lecture, I’ve certainly learned my lesson.
What do I do?
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Find the location of the photos whether they are on his phone, his camera or his computer. Search them all, and if you find the pictures, delete them.
Once you delete them for good, there is no way he can get them back, and then you can dump him. Always remember that taking scandalous photos isn't a good idea because you never know who will see them.
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#1. Always remember that love is NOT betrayal which you seem to already know that and good for you for seeing it.
I think what Confused said below me is a great idea, Plan something "surprising" for your boyfriend but rather than actually going along with it take that time to go through the house and see what you can find. Try to look when he isn't home or if he has a computer ask him if you can borrow it and when you a free chance delete everything again.
I hope you take this as a lesson for the future, Don't ever let someone take pictures you don't want to be seen again.
If you don't end up finding all the photos, and he does end up showing them around then you have a reason to go to the police as it would be considered harassment, violation of privacy.
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If there is any way to get the photos and delete them/throw them away do that. If theyre on his computer, maybe go to his house and tell his parents you want to surprise him and then delete them. or if theyre on his phone wait for him to leave it somewhere and then delete them.
if this isnt an option, the next best thing would be to get him to break up with you. whatever annoys him, do it. be mean or ignore him or whatever it takes. ask him to see chick flicks and buy you stuff and buy him a love fern! ever seen how to lose a guy in 10 days? haha :]
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You could try to get to where he hides these photos and take them when he doesnt notice.
Or act as to him so he loses interest
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