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thinking of ex boyfriend
Posted Monday August 2 2010, 11:36 am
My boyfriend & I have been together for a couple years (& now we live together) but we broke up for a couple months last year and I was with someone else for the whole time we were broken up. We were together every single day and I liked him alot but I ended up getting back together w/ my boyfriend. Since me & him got back together I havent talked to my ex, or whatever you would call him, at allll..but I think about him alot & I feel bad aboutt it but I cant help it? I dream about him alot too..like in my dreams were always so happy to see eachother & its nice but then when I wake up I just miss him and I always wonder if he thinks of me too? I know this whole thing probably sounds retarded but idk what to do & Im no...
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New things in the bedroom =(
Posted Monday August 2 2010, 5:46 am
My fiance mention, for like the third time, that he would like to try new things in the bedroom. His main interest seems to be on a threesome, which is something that he knows I have done in the past. The thing is, I don't want to share him (that's why I commited to him, because before him I only had friends with benefits) and I've told him how I feel. Knowing that he wants a threesome makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, and like he doesn't really want ME. Am I overracting? I do understand that he has only been with me, maybe he wants to experience someone else... or experience the things that I did before meeting him. I really would like a possible explanation on why he would ask for something that he knows bothers me to even think about.
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Is it wrong?
Posted Monday August 2 2010, 1:00 am
Is it wrong for a 17 year old girl to have strong feelings for a 34 year old guy? I am 17 and have a friend who is 34. I love everything about him. He's polite, sweet, considerate, and has the most amazing personality I have ever seen.
Before anyone assumes that he is some weirdo, here are the facts. He has NO IDEA I love him. He never has hinted at anything more than being friends and has never pressured me into anything.
Whenever I'm around him I feel truly happy and beautiful. I have never felt this way for anyone in my entire life. (I know this sounds like a case of teenage crush, but it's beyond lust, I love him for more than physical reasons. Just talking to him mesmerizes me.)
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well...
Posted Sunday August 1 2010, 10:53 pm
me and my boyfriend were having sex for longer than usual and when he cumed in me i went to the bathroom and something from my vagina came out like shaving foam all at once! it was cool but just wondering why did that happen lol
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military man
Posted Sunday August 1 2010, 11:42 am
I'll try to make this as short and straight forward as possible. Basically there is a guy that I have known for a while now. He is in the marines and currently stationed no where near to where I am living now. Before he left, the possibility of starting a relationship had been discussed. I drove 18 hours in one day just to see him for the weekend. And after all that as well as other attempts to show him that I am serious and committed he basically said that he was sorry because he couldn't give me what I wanted..a relationship. He said that he wouldn't be able to spend time with me and therefore the relationship wouldn't be equal on both our parts. But then again he has also said that I can find someone better than him. Does this sound like...
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Gone Too Long?
Posted Sunday August 1 2010, 9:16 am
Hey everyone I just kinda want to vent because everyone on here has been really helpful lately =) gratz for them! But what I was going to post was if my boyfriend has been gone too long? He moved here to WI with me but his mom made him move back to PA...I feel down about that but he says he's coming back. So far its been about 2-3 months he said he would be back on august 24th...but lately I've been feeling like I don't talk to him at all =( he works at 8 a.m. but doesn't get him till 4 pm an after that he ends up being busy with helping the family or just really isn't on, the only way we can talk is through IM an phone. It just makes me kinda sad that I can only talk to him for a little or not even at all anymore =( ...I know your probably...
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Don't know if i was in love or not.
Posted Saturday July 31 2010, 11:07 pm
i was with a boy for a year, and then we broke up. we never told each other we were in love, knowing that's a huge step.
when we broke up, we admitted to it. he said he was in love with me & i said it back. we dont even talk anymore, but i know he was my first real love. i just dont know if i was IN love, you know?
is there a difference between your first real relationship, that person being your first love, but not being in love with them? when it came to him, being my longest relationship, i never felt this way about anybody else. i was only 15 at the time. i lost my virginity to him and although we're broken up i do not regret it because i know i loved him; he was my first love, i just dont know if i w...
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how to take our 'relationship' further?
Posted Saturday July 31 2010, 4:56 pm
17/f. So, I've known this guy since November. We were just acquaintances at first, but then we started talking more and had a really great connection, became friends, I didn't think anything more of it. Around April/May it started getting flirty, and then it was getting increasingly flirty.
I realised I liked him, and by the beginning of July we had established we liked each other as more than friends. We've got together (not as far as sex) twice since, but it's always been really loving. I can tell he's not just after sex, because he doesn't rush me or push me into anything, and both times, we spent a lot of the time just talking and laughing. I can tell he's interested in my life and my past and my family and my interests ...
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So confused....
Posted Saturday July 31 2010, 10:48 am
Hello ,
Okay I have a huge problem. I have fallen for this one guy so much , i've never fallen for a guy like this before. So , okay we have known eachother for around about 3 years now and we just met up and we were patient all that time and we finally met up and we had a blast. He was such a gentlemen and everything and we did some phsyical things and he dropped me home and waited for me till I went inside. So , we talked after and he said he had a great time , and so did I. But , the problem is he goes away for a couple months to play sports in the States , and we live a bit apart. Is it worth it?
I really don't want to get hurt , but I have really fallen for him.
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how to get over him?
Posted Saturday July 31 2010, 1:21 am
Me and my ex broke up about a year ago and i still havent gotten over him he was my first love and i miss him very much especially since i never really got to say bye im dating someone new now and they make me really happy but im scared that theyre gonna leave me the way my ex did i havent seen him since we split up but anyways i wanna give my heart to the new person im with but i cant because a part of me is still holding on to my ex im tired of crying over him i want to let go but i dont know how what can i do to get over him???
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is he controlling?
Posted Saturday July 31 2010, 12:47 am
14f my boyfriend and I don't go to the same high schools so I don't know a lot of his friends. He gave some of them my number and I text them a lot. I mentioned how i hadn't talked to them in like 3 days and that it felt like forever. He said it bothered him that I texted them because one of them trashes him and how one flirts with me. I told him I wouldn't talk to the one who trashed him and how the other one only talked about him with me and how we were perfect for each other. He then randomly said he had to go. Is he being too controlling??I feel like he can't tell me who to talk to and who not to talk to...
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Uncomfortable Around Boyfriend
Posted Friday July 30 2010, 8:12 pm
So, this is my first relationship with a guy and I really like him. Problem is, I'm really uncomfortable with doing things around him. Like, I'm even scared to touch him on my own. I feel like I'll do it wrong and then he'd judge me in a negative way. I'm trying to open up slowly to him. He knows that I'm uncomfortable at doing certain things with him too but he says he understands and that it takes time. I know that if I stay like this, he wouldn't like it and I don't want to be like this either. How do I loosen myself up around him to make things between us more enjoyable?
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What is cheating? and how can i fix it
Posted Friday July 30 2010, 6:46 pm
i caught my bf having intimate conversations with a web cam girl. He showed her pictures of himself and our pets. he made a note to remember her birthday and wrote love _____
apparently the web cam went two ways.
i find this really creepy and im having a hard time getting over it and trusting him. we have been together 6 yr and are getting married soon.
my question is is this cheating?
will they do it again?
is this a warning sign of things to come?
personaly i feel like this is more of an emotional cheat, but also its grose... and im no prude. I love him alot but i dont understand why he would do this to me. plus he has been turning me down for sex... so im lost
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Should I Confess To Him?
Posted Friday July 30 2010, 6:32 pm
17/f
I have a friend that asked me out once, but due to certain things that were occurring in my life, I refused. So we decided to remain as friends and I had told him I wanted to get to know him a bit better, since at the time he was practically, almost a stranger. So yes, we talked alot, on the phone mostly. At times, he would bring up like a relationship talk. It was weird cuz we seemed there but hesistant. Anyway, nothing went on, aside from me trying to sorta of push him into feeling comfortable talking to me face-to-face.
Later he went on hookin up with various girls but his relationships wouldn't last long. I somehow became his counselor trying to convince him to give himself time before entering a new relation...
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I need to get ahold of his cellphone record!!
Posted Friday July 30 2010, 6:50 am
I have been suspecting that my boyfriend of 4 years is cheating on me and could be already engaged!! i go to ask him and he says its crazy talk and all.. i look at his phone and its always clear.. but i have a feeling he tells the other one not to call or text at the times he does see me.. is there any way i can get hold of his cell phone record for free or anything!! ah i'm going crazy here i need to know!!! please help me!!
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girl with baby
Posted Friday July 30 2010, 12:26 am
ok so like this girl and she most likely likes me too and i think we could have a pretty good relationship but anyways we are only 15 and she has a baby do you think this would be a problem in the relationship
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how do you know youre old enough to have sex?
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 11:09 pm
we already know kids / teens of all ages are having sex. but how do you know youre physically, emotionally, and mentally ready to have sex?
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How do you know youre IN love?
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 10:39 pm
You can love in a lot of ways. you can be with someone so amazing and say you love them; the next, and scariest step, if youre serious enough, can be saying youre in love with them.
(lets make sure we know the difference between loving someone & being in love with someone. i always believed you can only be in love so many times.)
For example, my story.. i met this guy in the beginning of sophomore year. we began to talk but we didnt get close until early 2010. we were best friends for months & then he admitted to liking me. I began to like him back and weve been together officially for nearly two months.
when someone's your best friend, is it faster to fall in love? how do you know? wh...
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caught between 2:/
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 9:46 pm
i know this is kinda long but if you help me out thank you soo much.
18/f
so me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago (we dated 3 months). he just blew up at me and made me feel like shit so i said i don't need this and ended things with him. a few weeks later he messeged me telling me that he can't stop thinking about me and cried over me and really wants to get back with me and blahblah. i won't get back with him for a few reasons: 1. i can't forget the reason why we broke up and how miserable he made me feel. 2. he doesn't drive and he doesn't have a job so he never can afford to take me anywhere, i don't even think we've been on an actually date. and i have to drive EVERYWHERE 3. he's a year younger than me (i know this i...
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well i have custody of my son and I can't meet anyone whats the best way ?
Posted Thursday July 29 2010, 7:41 pm
my life has been crazy! right now I want some relaxing....! nah,I JUSTWANTTOHAVESOMEFUN
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