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girl with baby
ok so like this girl and she most likely likes me too and i think we could have a pretty good relationship but anyways we are only 15 and she has a baby do you think this would be a problem in the relationship
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A friend of mine is 15 years old as well and has a child and he has a really successful dating life (well as much as a 15 year old can).
But what you have to realize is that she is on a different level of maturity than you. She has been through something in life at such a young age that you haven't been through and it has made her grow up.
If you think that you are ready to add a child into the mix in a 15 year old relationship, then by all means, pursue it. But think about it first, hun.
You're young, live your life.
If you have any other questions don't hesitate to ask.
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I think that it could become a problem later on. Sooner or later, she would expect your help, and no 15 year old is ready to raise a baby, even if they do accidentally have one. You aren't responsible for that baby, but you would end up feeling like it if you two were together. I think she has enough on her plate right now anyways, and with a baby at 15, she really sounds like she doesn't need a boyfriend. Her main focus needs to be on that baby, and with a man in the picture, her baby will get pushed aside.
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try asking your parents.
all jokes aside (though that wasnt really a joke), i really think that girl of yours shouldnt be flirting around when she has a baby to take care of when she's 15.
this situation is a prologue to a very messy drama series, the kind where you watch it for a few minutes only to shout "just get out of that relationship!".
and that's what you should do. snap out of it and just be a good supportive friend. she has more than she can handle, she cannot give you more of her attention, as compared to her baby.
unless that baby's yours.then, that's a whole new game, mister.
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Uhm, yes. You are 15. You can't properly take care of a baby, and she will likely have you take care of the baby and that's probably not something you want to be involved in. If you're willing to make that sacrifice to be with the girl, well, I'd reconsider. You don't have the resources to take care of a child that isn't even yours.
Find a different girl.
--Jack
(18/m)
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you need to ask yourself are you prepared to have a relationshiop witha baby.
because ultimately if you geti nvolved with her you get involved witht he kid. which in my opinion is fine. a guy willing to take on that much responsilbity shows character and matureness.
although you do have to consider you are only 15. and your hormones might be going pretty crazy.
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sadly, yes. I am guessing the baby is not your's? if it is then that is whole other matter...but from what you are saying here, it is not your baby...
At fifteen it is not a wsie move on either of your parts. You can be there with her, take care of her but are you sure you really want the tremendous responsibilities? like what, you ask?
income for starters...will she live with you at your parents or will she stay with her folks and you come visit? What if the baby(heaven forbid) needs medical attention? who will cover that?
secondly, the emotional level is a lot to deal with as well. It is not something you get into and just walk away from when it no longer is working for either of you...
lastly, what do the parents say?
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