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thinking of ex boyfriend
My boyfriend & I have been together for a couple years (& now we live together) but we broke up for a couple months last year and I was with someone else for the whole time we were broken up. We were together every single day and I liked him alot but I ended up getting back together w/ my boyfriend. Since me & him got back together I havent talked to my ex, or whatever you would call him, at allll..but I think about him alot & I feel bad aboutt it but I cant help it? I dream about him alot too..like in my dreams were always so happy to see eachother & its nice but then when I wake up I just miss him and I always wonder if he thinks of me too? I know this whole thing probably sounds retarded but idk what to do & Im not asking if I should get back w/ him bc I wouldnt..I mean I love my boyfriend & I wouldnt do that but do I need closure or something? Should I see him or talk to him? I just dont want to keep thinking of him everyday or dreaming about him I feel kinda guilty..
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First, you may want to sit down & really think about what you want. Are you completely happy with your boyfriend, or do you find yourself wanting to be with your ex more?
If you do decide to stay with your boyfriend, it may not be the best idea to try to contact your ex. I met up with an ex once, because I thought I needed closure, but it did more harm than good. It just made me think about him more, & caused some major problems with the guy I was dating at the time. I completely understand what you mean, though. It is really hard to miss someone so much, but you need to decide if it's really worth the risk. Over time, the feelings won't be as strong.
If you do feel the need to talk to him again, you should really talk to your boyfriend about it first to make sure he'd be okay with it.
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youre right you do need closure you should contact him and maybe even try to become friends with him
the reason youre thinking about him so much is probably because your wondering if you and your ex could have become much more but youll never know and now youre questoining your relationship with your curent boyfriend
hope i helped
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