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how to take our 'relationship' further?
17/f. So, I've known this guy since November. We were just acquaintances at first, but then we started talking more and had a really great connection, became friends, I didn't think anything more of it. Around April/May it started getting flirty, and then it was getting increasingly flirty.
I realised I liked him, and by the beginning of July we had established we liked each other as more than friends. We've got together (not as far as sex) twice since, but it's always been really loving. I can tell he's not just after sex, because he doesn't rush me or push me into anything, and both times, we spent a lot of the time just talking and laughing. I can tell he's interested in my life and my past and my family and my interests etc. I've been involved with players before and he is definitely not one.
Anyway, we don't really see each other except at parties. We text frequently but so far we've only met up at parties. Bearing in mind we have only brought our relationship our of the friend zone in the past month.
I'd like to hang out with him more, because I'd like to move the relationship forward, I really like this guy. I never have connections with people the way I do with him. I've hinted at it, and so has he, but we've never straight out said anything.
I don't know what to do, because I don't want to scare him away. What should I do to bring it forward?
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You guys need some one on one time. If he's into you, then you won't scare him away. He's probably thinking the same thing you are right now but doesn't know what to do.Find a movie time for this weekend, and ask him if he wants to go, if he can't, then suggest a rented movie at your house. Hope I helped!
-Brina
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the best thing to do is to come out and tell him how you feel. i mean, just be honest with him completely. He probably feels the same for you but you might have to bring it up because he's probably more afraid to lose you. I'm sure if you can sense that he feels the same way for you, you can just bring it up with him.
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