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Should I Confess To Him?
17/f
I have a friend that asked me out once, but due to certain things that were occurring in my life, I refused. So we decided to remain as friends and I had told him I wanted to get to know him a bit better, since at the time he was practically, almost a stranger. So yes, we talked alot, on the phone mostly. At times, he would bring up like a relationship talk. It was weird cuz we seemed there but hesistant. Anyway, nothing went on, aside from me trying to sorta of push him into feeling comfortable talking to me face-to-face.
Later he went on hookin up with various girls but his relationships wouldn't last long. I somehow became his counselor trying to convince him to give himself time before entering a new relationship. I started gaining feelings for him but again he was in another relationship, so I respected that. After a while he broke up with that girl and he's been single for some time but we hardly talk to each other anymore.
If we do have a conversation again, should I confess to him that I was going to ask him out before I found out he was currently in a relationship with his last girlfriend or should I just leave things the way thery are?
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First when u start talking again, just bring up the past and friendly topics you guys shared together. Don't jump right into asking him or confessing to him about your feelings. That way, if he's kinda interested you would be able to tell from the reaction he's giving you. Bring up another conversation again and then confess to him. You should let him know how you felt and tell him why you didn't like him right away. At least he will know, whether he's in a relationship or not.
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Do whatever you feel you want too.
However, the next time you have a conversation with him, you might want to just confirm that he IS single. If you hope your confession might lead to something, it wouldn't be right to make that confession/request if he's committed to someone.
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