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spice it up
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 10:42 pm
im 15/f
ive been with my bf for several months now. hes fingered me ect and were pretty active (still virgin)
so i was wondering if there is any fun games we could play.
or any naughty questions i could ask him
????
thanks
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confused?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 9:55 pm
so 19/f last semester i had a class with this really cute guy and i kind of stalked him. well he gave me his business card and i texted him and it turns out he has a girlfriend. well anyways i didn't really talk to him that much, but on facebook i apologized to him and then i deleted him from my friends because he didn't say anything so i just thought maybe he didn't care. well anyways the other day i was jamming out in my car and well lol i saw him and he saw me and looked away and smiled. and i was like hmm weird. but i didn't understand why though because i thought he hated me? and also how come he didn't say anything back to me when i apologized to him? oh and i told my friend who was also in that class with us what happened and i was l...
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should i date a person that has been in a long term relationship?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 9:50 pm
im a 22 year old female the person im getting to know is 22 male i met in 8th grade of middle school almost 10 years ago and we went to the same high school also but we never talked, i was very shy and he was more outgoing and popular..so now he came to my job and remembered me,he told me he had a crush on me in middle school and always wanted to get to know me..so after that we talk & are getting to now each other.he was in a relationship for almost 6 years and has 3 kids. his ex had cheated on him.. the longest relationship i had was 5 months & i have no kids. we found out we have many things in common like music,movies ,we both have 2jobs & stuff like that.so after a week of getting to know each other he asks me to be his gi...
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I Want Rough Sex
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 6:36 pm
My boyfriend and I are sexually active and we both like sex a lot haha but I'm kind of into experimenting. He's just happy with whatever I guess, because we talk and are very open about stuff, but he doesn't really have any things he wants to try. Like when I asked him, he said "I love sex already, it couldn't be any better". But the thing is, I kind of want to have rough sex...I'm not sure why but I think that would be a major turn on for me. But I don't really know how to explain to him what I want...like if I said "I want rough sex" he'd probably ask me what exactly I meant by that and I don't really know what to say haha. So basically, how should I explain this to him? And also, if you're a guy, would it be a turn on...
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What am I doing with this guy?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 6:03 pm
I'm 18/f and I'm a rather closed in person. I figured since I was shy I'd give online dating a try. So then I started talking to someone and for lack of a better term, I completely lost my sanity. I think about him all the time and whenever I do I'm smiling and giddy. We did happen to get into some... harmless fun... over video chat but there was no exposure of any kind. But, how do I know he's not just leading up to it and then as soon as he gets what he wants he'll just stop talking to me altogether? He acts sweet and always listens, but am I just that gullible, or is this turning into something?
-Chix
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I was asked out...
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 5:40 pm
I am a 15 yr. old girl. 2 days ago a guy was asking me really awkward questions like: would i date him? when would i have sex? etc...(i ignored these) then he put his arm around me and was grabbing at my side. the next day he asked me to the homecoming dance, but i thought he was joking so i said no immediately and he walked off. Now what should i do?
*please understand that i'm really shy and socially awkward!
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How to get my boyfriend to paint with me?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 12:27 pm
I really like to paint and create art. I don't do it professionally or anything but it's just kind of like a fun hobby. I had an ex a couple of years ago who would actually come over and we would goof around and make paintings of all sorts of things together. I have really, really great memories of that.
My now-boyfriend knows I like to paint. We even bought some painting supplies together one day and I thought maybe, just maybe, he would suggest we do some canvas art together. He seems extremely disinterested in painting though.
He does comment on my art sometimes and will tell me if he likes a particular painting so I know it's not that he absolutely hates the idea of art, in general. It's just that he's neve...
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Ex says he still loves me?
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 11:36 am
Okay to start with, my boyfriend and I broke up over a month ago. We went on vacation and ended up having a horrible time there together, we were arguing about ANYTHING. We both had things going on, I was really stressed with college and he was stressed with his job, which is why we wanted to get away but it ended up being the end of our relationship.
Anyway, we broke up on vacation and we agreed not to be friends (my idea, would hurt too much) and I asked him whether in a couple of weeks time he would want to give the relationship a second chance, and basically see how we feel throughout these next few weeks. He agreed to it, but said he wasn't sure if it would make a difference.
Throughout the first 2 weeks, ...
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why did he do this
Posted Wednesday October 6 2010, 3:42 am
please read and help me!
ok so there is this boy that i like and i have been liking him since last year around this time. last year was the first time i had ever seen him but i didnt actually talk to him. i would just see him around every once in a while. we just knew of eachother like we had alot of friends in common so i added him on myspace and that was the only way i would ever talk to him. so then last week i was at my sisters school and i seen him there and i noticed he was following me around and then he finally came up and talked to me the first time ever in person. he was all like hey i know you and stuff and it was like he went out of his way to chase me and talk to me and he was kind of flirting and then i had to l...
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Unintentionally making crush jealous?
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 11:19 pm
I have a crush on a boy and am fairly certain that it is mutual. But there's this other guy in my class who likes to talk to me and walk with me. He's a cool guy but I definitely don't like him as more than a friend.
I notice my crush stares at me when this other guy sits next to me and starts talking to me and I feel bad! I want my crush to know that I like HIM and only him! But obviously I'm I don't want to admit it myself -_-.
How do i make this other guy go away??
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Opening up
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 10:04 pm
My names Megan and I'm 18 years old. I'm in love with a boy who's the same age. We've been friends for two years, and we just started dating three months ago. I love the boy to death. Just.. lately I feel so distance. I don't know if its because it seems like he doesn't try as hard as I do or not. Almost every night I send him something sweet.. or something meaningful. The other night I sent him a paragraph of how much I wanted to be with him and admire him. He didn't respond. He claimed he didn't have the time to respond, which is understandable because he had a lot of plans that day. But, its happened numerous times. I asked him already if I do it too much, and he claims I don't and that he loves it. I threw him a suprise birthday party, ...
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Awkward dating :(
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 8:08 pm
I recently got a boyfriend, maybe less than a week? Well, the first day, we basically talked about everything we could. Politics, religion, future, careers, family, friends, anything you can think of, but most of the topics didn't last long as he kept stopping and staring off into space, then asking me to talk to him.
It's awkward because I'm normally a reserved person who likes being alone a lot of the time so I can work on a story that I'm writing. He always wants to talk, but it's like he wants me to do most of the talking and I'm a very boring person. All I do is write, sleep, and eat... Sometimes hang out with friends.
Bascially I'm asking why our relationship is so awkward. Maybe it's just because it's how things start o...
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My ex and crush ...........friends??
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 8:07 pm
Sorry if its long
So on Friday i was walking through our band room at school i saw the boy i liked and my ex talking thinking they were talking out there problems cause they always hated each other.So i waited a few mins b4 going in only to hear them say "jeez speak of the devil" So i was like "huh?"and they both answer "we were talking about u" "the whole time?" "yeah and guess what we are friends now!"And now today my crush was just about to ask me out he said "Elora do you wanna go?" then my ex rushes in "hey wat we talking bout?"But i still like some other boys and this guy "my crush" is sorta a player unlike the other 2 boys who are quiet and gentle
THNX IN ADVANCE
TINK2359
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Feeling so guilty..
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 6:41 pm
I broke up with my ex boyfriend a month ago. And I regret it so much. I realized all of the bad ways i treated him and now I feel guilty. I was the one that kept breaking up with me after a little fight and he always came back. It reassured me he still loved me when he came back, but now he hasn't. And i learned my lesson and I'm depressed now because of all this guilt I have inside. I want to apologize to him in person about the times I broke up with him and the way I acted. Do you think I should tell him now? Or wait for a few months and tell him? I still love him and want him back. I don't want to push him away if I tell him how I feel. Please give me your input
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Gettiing over him. </3
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 3:40 pm
female / 17 okay sorry if this is long
okay so i kinda still have feelings for my ex i still love him but he is a big asshole and i dnt even no why i love him but i just do.. i want to get over him ASAP! not even kidding i'm so done with him and i know that i will never put myself in the situation that i was in again we went out for about four months anyways so i want to cut him off completly but i want him to feel bad and feel like if he needs me back i want him to think well damn that girl really did love me... so i have a plan when we were together he wrote me these letters that said how much he loves me..and i still have them should i just walk up to him and just be like here cross my name out nd put ur girls or i was going to s...
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messing around feel guilty (me and my ex)
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 3:34 pm
female/17
okay sorry if this is long bt i really need advice.
okay so me and my broke up a while ago in july long story short he told my best friend she was sexy and all this other stuff and i got mad because he kept flirting with other girl. anyways when school started up agaiin i began liking him all over again it was crazy so one day we were "messing around" and we like made out and stuff like that and i flashed him (no sexual) stuff ! but when i left his said he loved me and i was so happy so i went home and went on facebook and he messaged me telling me how good the kiss was or whatever bt that we couldnt keep doing what we did anymore i was really confused so i went to his facebook page and his staus was i l...
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Mixed feeling (exx)..
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 3:26 pm
female/ 17 okay soo i think that my ex still likes me? im not sure tho i mean i can honestly say that i love him still and we havent been together since like july he moved on so fast its sad :( i broke up with him because he told my best friend she was sexy soo if he wants to call her sexy and not me then why was even with me? right? anyways we are still friends and like i feel like he is flirting with me even though we are not together and he has a girlfriend and whenever i meanchen her he avoids it do you think he still has any type of feelings for me? i want to stop loving me but its like i cant because he was my first boyfriend and ya... how can i stop loving him i need help i reallly just want to give up on him and everyone keeps tell...
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What should I do if my dad sincerely hates my boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 10:54 am
I'm a 19 year old female. I live with my parents still due to medical conditions, and recently started dating this guy. My dad and step mom hate his guts to say the least. My father met him once and told me that night I had to end it right then and there. The only reason my parents will give me for their judgement of him is that he gives off "bad vibes" which is not true. If I didn't trust him I wouldn't be with him. I have been sneaking around seeing him, lying out the wazoo to be with him. I know my parents aren't stupid, I realize that they probably know, but I love my booyfriend, I don't want to split up with him. My mother says that it is their house, their rules so I should obey my dad and stepmom and split up with him. But ...
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DOES HE LIKE ME?
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 5:10 am
I have liked this guy for 3 years & I told him when I first started liking him. We have liked eachother ever since but mostly at different times. On friday we hung out & one of his friends came with but he ignored his friend the entire time & payed attention to me. That entire day all he did was hug me, hold my hand, & tickle me in a cuddly way [he never let go of my hand!]. He knows I have never had my first kiss & I dont even let guys kiss my cheek but he chose to kiss it & i truely didnt mind. That day he said "I LOVE YOU & THINK YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL BUT IM NOT SERIOUS NOW." I just want to know does he really like me or is it a game hes playing?
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how many is too many?
Posted Tuesday October 5 2010, 3:27 am
Okay so... I believe in being abstinent until marriage... but I've had oral sex with about 6 guys, 3 of which I was not dating and 1 that was in (is in) another relationship. Do I feel bad about it? um yeah.. I'm 19 and I feel like 6 guys is way too many, i'm actually ashamed to even tell my friends they think its 4 or 5. So advice anyone?
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