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so 19/f last semester i had a class with this really cute guy and i kind of stalked him. well he gave me his business card and i texted him and it turns out he has a girlfriend. well anyways i didn't really talk to him that much, but on facebook i apologized to him and then i deleted him from my friends because he didn't say anything so i just thought maybe he didn't care. well anyways the other day i was jamming out in my car and well lol i saw him and he saw me and looked away and smiled. and i was like hmm weird. but i didn't understand why though because i thought he hated me? and also how come he didn't say anything back to me when i apologized to him? oh and i told my friend who was also in that class with us what happened and i was like i just want to move away and change my name and he looked at me weird so idk. can someone please help me?
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Yikes! Well, I think you'll just have to suck it up and take this as a lesson learned. Stalking is creepy LOL! But seriously, ok, you made a mistake...it happens. Yes, it can be embarrassing, but try to forgive yourself and stop obsessing over it, we've all been there once or twice. I once did kind of the same thing with a guy in high school. I didn't realize how "stalker-ish" I was being until one day, in front of a bunch of people he yelled "Stop following me around. I don't like you like that!" Yes, it was mortifying and I, like you, wanted to move away forever. But I decided to act like it had never happened (even though I was crying on the inside) and you know what, eventually it was like it didn't ever happen. I treated the guy like I would any other classmate and when I did have to talk to him I would imagine that he was just another friend. And soon it all blew over and we were actually friends by the time we left high school. You'll be ok : ) And maybe the "smiling" thing was a sign that things are blowing over. Maybe he feels bad that you might have been embarrassed. And listen, apologizing over the computer is kind of cowardly. Next time you see him just say something casual like "Hey, just wanted you to know I'm sorry about acting kind of weird. I didn't mean to make you uncomfortable, I just thought I liked you, but I'm cool now." It may be hard to say out loud, but I bet if you put it like that, short and to the point (you don't want to drag it out and give him cause to worry that you're not being sincere), he'll really appreciate it.
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that's really weird. maybe he was just smiling because you were "jamming out"? haha.
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