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I was asked out...
I am a 15 yr. old girl. 2 days ago a guy was asking me really awkward questions like: would i date him? when would i have sex? etc...(i ignored these) then he put his arm around me and was grabbing at my side. the next day he asked me to the homecoming dance, but i thought he was joking so i said no immediately and he walked off. Now what should i do?
*please understand that i'm really shy and socially awkward!
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hello there,
well you have to think about the way he asked you. Did he do it casual jokey ( then he was joking)
if he kept looking at his shoes mumbling a little awkward he probably meant it. Also think about if he was shy as well he would feel really embarrased.
you should talk to him and ask him if he meant it or not if he did apologise to him. I am also very shy and would of done the same as you. Imagine how he must feel if he meant, how would you feel.
talk to him.
hope this helped
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Look.. I'm not shy and neither is the crew I know... but no one I know would ask a girl out like that. There's charm and finesse involved cause you got to let her know you like her and your asking her out.
Dont get me wrong your young, and so was he. He probably doesnt even know how to ask a girl out. The main thing is he learns eventually, and him bombing out with you when you told him no sends a message that asking personal questions right out and grabbing at you isnt this best way to woo a girl.
It's cool you're shy. That's not a crime. Girls like you always have the best things to say and the best observations. Someone is going to find that super cool. Until then, be wour awesome self.
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You should be proud of yourself for being straight-forward and telling this loser "No!" to the dance.
Think of it this way:
This strange guy that doesn't know you and that you don't know at all just asked you if you were easy.
Easy, as in, slutty.
Slutty, as in, you'll let him have sex with you.
Sometimes ignoring questions about having sex does send the wrong message to the guy. The guy assumes that you don't want to just flat-out say, "Yeah, we can have sex if you're nice to me for a few days..." so he decides to push it a little and see how easy you are. In this case, he thinks you're going to be easy to get into your pants.
Get over this loser and be glad you said no. Find a guy who isn't going to meet you saying, "Hey, I'm horny. Can we have sex?" Because, seriously, those types of guys are the ones that will leave you beaten and broken, emotionally.
Be glad you said no.
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Gather up all your courage. The next time he touches you and asks you about sex tell him you're not a slut and you're not an idiot. You want a guy that can treat you like a lady, not some Jersey Shore skank who drinks too much. Yuck. Honey, you're not socially awkward.. that uncomfortable feeling you have is your BRAIN telling you its not cool for guys to treat girls like that. Just remember this - you teach people how to treat you. Let this guy into your life and you'll be dealing with dopes like this for the rest of your life.
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Hey, im really shy and stuff 2 :)
umm well do you want to go to the homecoming with him? if so, then go ask him i know its REALLY REALLY hard to, I know the feeling trust me, but you have to do what you want and not let that shyness get in the way of things.
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