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Ex says he still loves me?
Okay to start with, my boyfriend and I broke up over a month ago. We went on vacation and ended up having a horrible time there together, we were arguing about ANYTHING. We both had things going on, I was really stressed with college and he was stressed with his job, which is why we wanted to get away but it ended up being the end of our relationship.
Anyway, we broke up on vacation and we agreed not to be friends (my idea, would hurt too much) and I asked him whether in a couple of weeks time he would want to give the relationship a second chance, and basically see how we feel throughout these next few weeks. He agreed to it, but said he wasn't sure if it would make a difference.
Throughout the first 2 weeks, we did talk to eachother and argued quite frequently. We very rarely argued at all during the time we were together. (7 months) From then onwards we didn't really speak to eachother, to save arguments and see how we really felt. He told my friends he misses me a lot and he's been thinking about me all the time especially after a hard day.
We have spoke on and off face to face, as all of my friends are his friends, so we see eachother at least 3 times a week. He told me to my face he still loves me a lot, but he doesn't know what to do for the best. I didn't respond and I never contacted him since. I received a text from him 2 nights ago saying "I want you to know I still love you" I replied and I said I know that you do. And that's it. A day later he text me again asking how I was, etc etc. I told him I can't wait around forever for him to make a move, I need an answer on whether he would like to re-build a relationship. I said I will stop waiting by the end of this week, do you think that was a good decision to make? It's hurting me so much.
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Yes, I think it was a good decision. Its a mature decision. How can you expect any one else to respect you if you don't respect yourself? And as much as you care for him, you have enough respect for yourself to know you shouldn't have to "wait around" for him. A woman can never go wrong when she expects a man to be a man and step up. I'm sorry its hurting so much. The right decisions are rarely the easy one's to make.. if they were, EVERYBODY would make good decisions all the time. Good luck.
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