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Feeling so guilty..
I broke up with my ex boyfriend a month ago. And I regret it so much. I realized all of the bad ways i treated him and now I feel guilty. I was the one that kept breaking up with me after a little fight and he always came back. It reassured me he still loved me when he came back, but now he hasn't. And i learned my lesson and I'm depressed now because of all this guilt I have inside. I want to apologize to him in person about the times I broke up with him and the way I acted. Do you think I should tell him now? Or wait for a few months and tell him? I still love him and want him back. I don't want to push him away if I tell him how I feel. Please give me your input
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This may suck for you to hear.. but let me lay it down for you in honest truth. You can tell him everything. But don't expect an answer or for it to be favorable.
If you apologize. It needs to be from the heart and sincere and with the knowledge that you are doing it to make things right, not to get him back. You have to acknowledge that there is a possibility you may not get him back and be willing to move on.
What do you tell him? Everything you told us. Tell him the last few days have been miserable. Tell him you will deal with whatever choice he makes, and if he doesn't given you another chance that at least you have learned that how to treat the next person... and then thank him for hearing you out.
Then be prepared to walk away. If it's meant to be.. it will happen today, tommorow, or much later, but it'll happen right.
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I know what you mean by the feeling of reasurance. Everytime me and my boyfriend faught he would come to me. But it got to the point where he said enough, and it hit me before it got to the point of breaking up. Both of you need to make the relationship work, its not just one partners job to fix everything. I think you should apologize as soon as possible before time goes by because then it will be to late. So hurry, tell him everything, and speak from the heart.
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