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I found this girl on a website and I looked at her pictures.
I really like this dress she's wearing, but when I asked her where she got it she ignored me.

So, anyone else know where I can find this exact dress?

http://tinypic.com/r/2rm35hg/7

forever 21 maybe

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I do not know what to be for halloween. I am a 17 year old girl and I will be going to a party, not trick or treating. I don't want anything too extreme or done up, and I was going with more on the sexier side, rather then hunorous. Not slutty though. I was thinking of just earing like a little dress and adding accesories to make it into a costume. For instance like a little black dress with like a sailor hat or something. Let me know what you think.


Thanks and happy halloween!!!


a FAIRY.
Little black dress with your makeup done nicee.
Wings, jewelery and have fun with it

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Okay so i have like super weird skin, one day its clear the next day i have a major breakout and its also really dry! What should i use to clear it up? I tried so many things that i dont even kno which one works lol please help im tired of the freaking bumps! Thanks in advance =]

that sounds like my problem you should talk to your doctor, sometimes its a hormonal problem. Birth Control Pills help

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I'm 16/F and my mother is 53. She's recently started losing handfuls of her hair, which was already thin to begin with and she's freaking out that it might be the water or her health.
Well, I am also losing my hair after I take showers. I lose big handfuls of it, but my hair is super thick and dark, so it's not even noticable, not as much as hers. I shower about every other day and she showers every day. I use a teatree shampoo special for dandruff and my mother uses suave. Is she just freaking out and is my shampoo messed up? Or is it the shower? I need help because my mom is a super spazz!

You should metion to your mom about taking vitamins natural vitamins. My mother in law takes pills i dont know what there called but she got them from a store that sells pure natural medicine. so maybe your mom can look into it.

Loosing some hairs after a shower is nothing out of the ordanary.

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I always wanted to be a blond but I have really dark brown hair. I tried to dye my hair one time like 2 years ago and it ended up being this weird orange like color. It was really crappy and I had to dye over it again brown to get it to cover up. How can I get my hair to be blonde though without it turning weird and orange looking?

1.I suggest you go get it done at a salon
2.You need to get your hair bleached and then have it dyed blonde
3.If you dyed it dark brown its gonna be difficult to get your hair blonde and when you bleach it it'll probably turn orange again

4.I dont recommend you to dye your hair blonde its just going to damage it. Maybe you should try blond streaks or highlights and dye it blonde little by little.

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I recently lost my virginity in September. I expected the first time to be painful but the next three times were also painful, but the initial pain went away after a minute. I understand this could be because the times I have sex are usually spaced out by a week or two. The problem is, I don't get much enjoyment out of sex. I have feeling, but it just feels more like pressure than pleasure. Other activities give me more pleasure than sex, such as oral sex.

I don't know if this could be related but about a week and a half after having sex I got a yeast infection and then after the second time for having sex I seemed to get another infection of some sort. I'm not at risk for any STD's because we were both virgins and we always use condoms.

I'm really not sure what to do or if theres anything I can do. I feel like sex should be more pleasurable and not cause me so much trouble. If anyone has advice or can relate I'd appreciate it.

I heard that after sex you should pee because otherwise you could get a yeast infection or urine infection. I dont know how accurate this is but it doesnt hurt to try.

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I am a 45 year old male. I served in the army for 20 years. I was medically discharged due to a negligent life threatening parachute collision. I could not live without being in the army. So on my last day before heading off on holidays, I went up to my room on the barracks and swallowed in excess of 300 tablets. Previously I had been diagnosed with Post Traumatic Stress Syndrome (PTSD) of which I was taking a cocktail of drugs. On top of that I was also taking a cocktail of drugs for the pain from my parachute injuries.So I swallowed the pills...wrote my goodbye letter to my wife and 4 daughters. Unfortunately I woke up in hospital. 2 years later I slashed my left wrist and I was bleeding into a bucket whilst talking to a counsellor...once again I woke up in hospital. I want to die. I can not take this life of mine any more. Please tell 100% how to commit suicide!

There is a reason why your still on earth :]]

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female / 17 okay sorry if this is long
okay so i kinda still have feelings for my ex i still love him but he is a big asshole and i dnt even no why i love him but i just do.. i want to get over him ASAP! not even kidding i'm so done with him and i know that i will never put myself in the situation that i was in again we went out for about four months anyways so i want to cut him off completly but i want him to feel bad and feel like if he needs me back i want him to think well damn that girl really did love me... so i have a plan when we were together he wrote me these letters that said how much he loves me..and i still have them should i just walk up to him and just be like here cross my name out nd put ur girls or i was going to say here you go i guess everything you told me was a lie and ripp it up in front of his face should i do that? i mean i dnt see any other way for him to want me back soo what should i do?

Just leave it, i had a similiar problem.
I was with a guy for 9 months, he broke up with me because he was going to "college." 2 months later i see him at a school dance with another girl, his girlfriend. I had to gather my strength and ignore him.
Well 1sh thing karma is a bitch, his gf broke up with him. It was that new years, a year later, that he apologized to me and said i didnt diserve what he did. Then he wanted to have my phone number.
I felt so proud of myself because i said no thanks, my bf wont like it. Thats when he realized he had a good thing, and he recognized his lost.

It might seem like forever at first, but you'll move on :]

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so my group of friends had an idea for halloween, m&m's. me and 4 of my friends planned and thought of the idea at lunch sometime last week. well my other friends got mad at me over the weekend and basically took over the idea, and they aren't including me in it. im supposed to be the brown one, cause everyone else called all the other colors, when i called orange, so everyone said "why is she being brown..its like the total opposite of us" i really want to be included. and the only reason why they arent including me is cause they got mad at me over the weekend, which is really pathetic and rediculous. my other friend who also isnt doing it said she would do something with me, and my other friend who is supposed to be doing with them said she would do it with us too. i dont want that group to think that i like bailed and made everyone else bail too, cause i didnt. i dont know what to do. my town changed halloween to the night before, so its not like i can go with someone who doesnt live in my town. what should i do?

Dont let childish drama ruin your halloween night!
Do something else with the other girls, you can be breakfast like eggs, bacon, and french toast. You'll find something else. Just have fun.

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I broke up with my ex boyfriend a month ago. And I regret it so much. I realized all of the bad ways i treated him and now I feel guilty. I was the one that kept breaking up with me after a little fight and he always came back. It reassured me he still loved me when he came back, but now he hasn't. And i learned my lesson and I'm depressed now because of all this guilt I have inside. I want to apologize to him in person about the times I broke up with him and the way I acted. Do you think I should tell him now? Or wait for a few months and tell him? I still love him and want him back. I don't want to push him away if I tell him how I feel. Please give me your input

I know what you mean by the feeling of reasurance. Everytime me and my boyfriend faught he would come to me. But it got to the point where he said enough, and it hit me before it got to the point of breaking up. Both of you need to make the relationship work, its not just one partners job to fix everything. I think you should apologize as soon as possible before time goes by because then it will be to late. So hurry, tell him everything, and speak from the heart.

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so all my friends have already had sex, and me, well, i havent. im scared its gonna hurt and such. i have a very low pain tolerance. its beyond low. anyways, i feel like im uncomfortable with my body. im comfortable with it, i just dont know if im comfortable with anyone else seeing it. i really love my boyfriend and when its the right time, i wanna do it for the first time with him, but i wanna make sure im comfortable. is there anyway to do this? and is there any explanation for the way i feel?

I think if your not comfortable, it means your not ready. All my friends were having sex before me too. I had sex when i felt comfortable. Im a self consciouse person but my partner helped me feel comfortable and thats when i did it, i was ready.

That was one of the things i was scared too of the pain. But maybe thats just an excuse we make up because we are new to it and we are not ready.

When i did it for the first time, it hurt the first couple of times, but i did it without thinking twice, it felt right and i was comfortable. So dont rush into it because everyone one is doing it. Do it once your ready.

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Well , hey wassup. I'm throwing a party this November. & I need music I already have a small list of songs. If you have any songs in mind or that you do know. Can you please not hesistate to tell me a list.

Check Out different radio station websites and checkout the music lists of whats new and hot.
http://www.kiisfm.com/main.html

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So theres this guy I really like. He has a girlfriend though, but i cant just give up on him. We're friends but not really good ones. I like him a lot and he doesnt like me back. What should I do? What should I do to get him to like me? And by the way, he already knows I like him.

I've been that boyfriends gf. I've been in that girls place where a girl is getting at my guy. My bf did the same told the girl "im not interested i have a girlfriend". That shows he cares about her, and if he does he'll probably even tell her that you are trying to get at him. So best advice is let it go because its gonna bring problems to you.

If he knows you like him already, and he showed no interest thats as far as its gonna get, hes just going to push you away and cut your friendship completely.

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i need new things to do with my boyfriend. kinky or "normal" things we can do at college. i wanna change things up a bit. we also haven't seen each other in a while since we go to different schools.

Sex Toys

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ok so i met this guy about a week ago and every single night without fail hes been in my dream. and its really really confusing me. the night before i met up with him for the second time. i had two dreams about the outcome of what would happen when i would see his band play the next day. the last dream i had that night felt so realistic like it wasnt a dream at all. it was just weird, i had my head resting on his chest and i could feel his heard beating. it was weird because it was so realistic. unfortunately the dream wasnt a premonition, but still the random strange dreams with him continue...why do i keep dreaming of him..

Maybe your digging him?
If not i've read that the last thing your on your mind is what you dream about. so maybe because you keep wondering why you dream of him daily is causeing you to dream of him.

But mostlikely you just might be digging him.

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Ok well during sex my bf kept calling me his whore and he slapped me accross the face pretty hard so hard it left me a bruce and I had to lie to my dad when he asked me what happened... but I mean he's never acted violent towards me before until now I mean... any advice would be appreciated.

Tell your boyfriend exactly how you feel. If you dont like it tell him. I think in sex guys get turned on with terms that arent usually said in other occassion like bitch, hoe ect.. When it comes to sex I think guys and sometimes girls dont see it wrong they're just super into the moment, really perverted, kinky, or rough. But thats where you have to say what your up to doing and what your just not ok with. If you dont say anything hes gonna think you like it and keep doing it.

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ok so I'm 13 and have eczema. It comes and goes, as it does for those who have it. But obviously it doesnt just happen out of the blue, SOMETHING IS TRIGGERING MY SKIN TO REACT. I have very sensitive skin. And so when i was a baby i was diagnosed with eczema. I had it on my scalp, face, and hands, neck, behind knees, and the inside of elbows. Thank god i dont have it on the scalp, hands, and i barely have any on my my face. I have a little on my neck, and a little on the back of knees. My inside of elbows are excruciating. they are red, ooze, ithcy, etc, and has a white background around it. I just got the eczema over the summer. So i dont like to show my inside elbows, their gross. My mom refuses to take me to a allergist to get tested, she thinks it could be anything. So I've been trying all the anti-itch lotions and such, let me tell you it "works" for like 2 days and stops. It moisturize but doesn't heal the red patches of skin. And i also don't want to use dermatologist creams, because they make your skin leathery looking and contain steroids. So....no.Also over the summer i had terrible rash on my face, it was caused by my nail polish, i had gotten wrinkles and puffiness. Then i removedcit and WALLLLA! it went down! but now i know the reast is eczema! All i want to know what could be possibly casuing it? I've been nder LOTs stress, and we let our grass grow out, and im thinking maybe something like that is causing it? or the humidity? And when i was a baby they said it was wheat... but i've been eating wheat for a long time...i guess it wore off..or maybe not? SHOULD I TEST THESE SYMPTOMS OUT, TO PREVENT FURTHER DISCOMFORT? WHAT COULD IT BE? WHAT SHOULD I DOOOO?NEED TO KNOW WHAT IT IS...FAST! PLEASE ANYONE WHO'S HAD THIS PLEASE TELL ME. THANK YOU GUYS SOOOOO MUCH! ♥♥♥♥♥

I was diagnosed with eczema to like around april and i get the rash throught out my legs and arms. This has happened to me scince i was in 5th grade and i am now 18. It itches like crazy gets swollen and red and looks terrible. The more i scratch the more it spreads. And on top of that it gets worst and worst every time i get it, which is 3 months or so apart. I went to the doctor two weeks ago because it got pretty bad and now they arn't sure if its eczema or not anymore. Im pretty frustrated myself. I Dont Know if my problem is the same as yours, but My mom bought me Caladryl Lotion, its a pink bottle, and it helped me with the itchyness and puffiness right now the rash looks like bruces but my mom says to keep putting on and so that i dont get marked and it wont stay,. Im not sure if it'll work for you but so far its working for me. if your not sure maybe you can ask your pediatrician if you can use it. Good luck

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