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Gettiing over him. </3
female / 17 okay sorry if this is long
okay so i kinda still have feelings for my ex i still love him but he is a big asshole and i dnt even no why i love him but i just do.. i want to get over him ASAP! not even kidding i'm so done with him and i know that i will never put myself in the situation that i was in again we went out for about four months anyways so i want to cut him off completly but i want him to feel bad and feel like if he needs me back i want him to think well damn that girl really did love me... so i have a plan when we were together he wrote me these letters that said how much he loves me..and i still have them should i just walk up to him and just be like here cross my name out nd put ur girls or i was going to say here you go i guess everything you told me was a lie and ripp it up in front of his face should i do that? i mean i dnt see any other way for him to want me back soo what should i do?
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Just leave it, i had a similiar problem.
I was with a guy for 9 months, he broke up with me because he was going to "college." 2 months later i see him at a school dance with another girl, his girlfriend. I had to gather my strength and ignore him.
Well 1sh thing karma is a bitch, his gf broke up with him. It was that new years, a year later, that he apologized to me and said i didnt diserve what he did. Then he wanted to have my phone number.
I felt so proud of myself because i said no thanks, my bf wont like it. Thats when he realized he had a good thing, and he recognized his lost.
It might seem like forever at first, but you'll move on :]
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I know what you're going through. You feel like its not fair that you hurt and he doesn't. Truth is, the BEST thing you can do is ignore him. Completely. Don't do anything dramatic, it proves you care enough to go out of your way. If he talks to you, just tell him you're done. You don't want his bullshit anymore and you deserve better. That will give you more respect and the fact that you wont be offending him will bother him the most. He wants to get a rise out of you.
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