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okay sorry if this is long bt i really need advice.
okay so me and my broke up a while ago in july long story short he told my best friend she was sexy and all this other stuff and i got mad because he kept flirting with other girl. anyways when school started up agaiin i began liking him all over again it was crazy so one day we were "messing around" and we like made out and stuff like that and i flashed him (no sexual) stuff ! but when i left his said he loved me and i was so happy so i went home and went on facebook and he messaged me telling me how good the kiss was or whatever bt that we couldnt keep doing what we did anymore i was really confused so i went to his facebook page and his staus was i love you baby 9.25 im like what the hell??? are you kidding me dude your "in love" with your girlfriend from two days ago yet you just told me you loved me ? i felt really bad because he didnt tell me he had a girlfriend ! if he would have told me that i would have never mess around with him i feel mad dumb what do i do i keep thinking about it... i mean i'm kind of glad we arent together because i found out who he really is ! he's oviously a liar and a player ! since he doesnt want to claim anybody ! am i wrong for feeling this way? should i tell his girlfriend? i mean i dnt want her to turn on me but i already been put up with him for four months and now i see his true colors so what do i do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sami143 answered Wednesday October 6 2010, 10:01 am: Most people would feel this way. You did nothing wrong hunny. He is a player and he doesnt deserve you, or anyone for that matter. You should tell his girlfriend. She has a right to know. tell her exactly what happened. She might be mad at you, but atleast she will know. If she asks you questions about it be honest and answer them. Just dont start any drama with her. And if he tries to talk to you after this whole thing dont talk to him.
Rene5009 answered Wednesday October 6 2010, 9:56 am: you aren't wrong you feel this way, its normal that you feel this way, but it isn't your fualt, you didn't know. You should tell his girfriend. he wasn't faithful to her and no one wants a cheater as a boyfriend, she may or may not like you after but at least she knows and she can dump the guy. [ Rene5009's advice column | Ask Rene5009 A Question ]
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