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boyfriend cheated???? need advice asap
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 4:59 am
im 21 years old...and heres my story , sorry if its short but i really need advice ,ok so i have a boyfriend who ive been in an on and off relationship for the past months, there was one time where we broke up for good like the other times we used to say we were broken up but kept comunicating and eventually got back...we were back now for good and things where better than ever, but i noticed there was a girl who has been trying to contact him like calling nonstop and texting alooot and he never replies to her messages he didnt wanted to tell me the complete story and kept giving excuses, today he had finally told me the truth, he told me during that time we were really broken up which was like 2 weeks... which is the only time i really fe...
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My boyfriend planned this double date with his friend
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 12:47 am
So my boyfriend is planning a double date with me and his friend for this tuesday. I hate double dates cause they're just so awkward and I don't know his friend or the other person. Ugh i just don't want to go. How do i get out of it? And why is he planning such a thing? It just makes me uncomfortable. And I'm not going to talk about it with him because he's just gonna make me go anyway cause it's his friend. help....I hope I'm busy.
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is my penis the right size to pleasure my non virgin gf?
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 11:45 pm
I am a 15 year old boy.I have a penis that is 4 1/2 inches non erect,and 6 1/2 inches erect.I have a girl friend that is 1 month younger than me.she has had sex 4 times.Idk know if any the boys are older than me,but i beleive at least 1 was.I wanna show her im like the best and make her feel good,but i think she might have did someone that has a penis bigger than mine.Does anyone have any advice on how i can grow my penis?
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Waitress
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 10:34 pm
18/m
Ok, so I went to this restaurant the other day and had this waitress that was the most beautiful woman I have every seen. I really want to speak to her again. I know her name, and I remember what she looks like (how could I forget?) but I don't know if it would be too creepy to maybe find her on facebook or something, and I'm not even sure if she'd be interested in talking to me. What should I do?
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how to tell a girl to stop calling my boyfriend PLEASE HELP im sorryitslong
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 10:25 pm
hi, i have a bf who while we were broken up met this girl, he first lied about how he met her (i saw her on her contacts and he said she was an old friend ) then weeks later when we were kinda getting back together he told me the truth (supposely) he said that he met her at a train station when he had no money for the ticket and she offered nicely to pay so they chatter a little she "found him" on facebook and added him there, on blackberry messenger and on skype (which is rare cause he doesnt have any of this information on his profile so theres no possible way that she would do this without him giving the number and usernames since on facebook he doesnt even has a picture of himself and he has a very common name ) so i was think...
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I cheated on my boyfriend
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 8:38 pm
I cheated on my boyfriend in the summer twice with my ex. Because he made me feel so insecure about our relationship. He never gave me a lot of attention, he never called me. He didn't text me very fast. My ex gave me a lot of attention and made me feel loved. And my boyfriend never gets jealous about other guys except my ex because we went out for 2 years. Also I get really jealous if my boyfriend talks to other girls or hangs out with them. My ex kept coming back to me even when I was going out with him. I keep cheating on my boyfriend with him though. Now I stopped. I feel guilty about it because I think my boyfriend has never cheated on me. I just don't trust him. Because he talks to a lot of girls and never gives me a lot of attention....
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marriage confusion!
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 7:11 pm
I am recently engaged, and also completely lost. Not in the planning, i am in control of all that. My husband to be's mother is more or less a nightmare. Unfortunately she found out about the engagement on facebook after we held the news from most of our friends and family for 2 days, because she and her boyfriend were too "busy" to call us back or pick up a phone. Let alone she may be his mother but is never really around, she lives in Indiana and i in NY. I feel like i should include her in the day, but how do i deal with her when she gives advice besides saying thanks thats a good idea, i'll write it down. Do i invite her boyfriend? or do i sit her with her ex husband and his girlfriend? His parents are not so much into the wed...
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I'm in love with my best friend but she doesn't know it.
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 7:51 am
There's this girl I hang out with a lot. We've known each other since we were little kids. We grew up together and we're both 15 now. For 4 years now I've fallen for her hard. I daydream of her all of the time. I dream of her at night. I can't get her out of my head. I love everything about her from the way she smiles to the smell of her hair when I'm close to her. I always seem to find myself making excuses to see her more often. I feel like I'm obsessed because my feelings for her are so strong I can't have a proper girlfriend (I always end up being distant to them, not really wanting to date them, and dumping them early on because of my lack of interest).
I've kept these feelings a secret but sometimes I think I should tel...
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I have a controling boyfriend but I love him. What do I do?
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 7:44 am
My bf is really controlling. He always has to know where I am, what I'm doing, who I'm with, and everything. He controls like everything. If I end up being like 10 minutes late from when he told me to call him (like if I go out shopping and was suppose to call him at noon, but I call him at like 12:10) then he gets all angry and yells and screams and tells me I'm a really, really bad gf. I know this isn't healthy but I LOVE HIM. When he isn't mad at me then we have a really good time together. Is there something I can do to make him not controling and better understanding? Do I HAVE to dump him, because all my friends say he's just abusive and it'll get worse but he's everything to me. Help, please! What do I do?
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cant fall out of love . super long!
Posted Saturday December 25 2010, 5:12 am
Okay this may be kinda long , well i was dating this guy for almost 3 years off and on, we have literally been thru hell in back because of our ex's, friends and family, basically we were stupid and insecure. Anywho we found out that he was moving out of state with his fam and he wanted me to come but his family didnt like me that much because they thought i was taking him away and that i wasnt in love with him like i said which was a lie. Well i went to visit him after he left for bout a month and everything went good family loved me and everything but then we started fight alot over lil old stuff that i found out he lied about and i told him that if we break up we are done for good, he told me he loved me and needed me so we was on the sa...
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Do I truly love him? what do i do?
Posted Friday December 24 2010, 2:13 pm
So, over the past months I've been second guessing my love for my Boyfriend. I've been dating him for 4 months now, but I've known him for about 2 years before we started dating. Before we started dating you could tell that there was always something more between us. And this year we finally started dating. and It's been an awesome couple of months. I never knew i could care about someone so much until I met him. But this last month, I've been thinkin about everything. Do i really love him? Is this guy the one? and i've been so depressed the past month. I'm so confused. I cry about how I don't know if I love him, then I'll cry about how I'm hurting him not being around him. then i cry about how i don't want him to leave or go. I've never...
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I don't know if the boy I like likes me anymore so i am trying to move on!
Posted Friday December 24 2010, 10:39 am
So there is this boy and I am not going to get much but he did like me at one point and I dont know if he does anymore so I am trying to move on but it is hard!!! and it would be easier but I lost my best friend last year because lets just say she went bad. She knew how to make her way around guys and she brought out the flirty side of me, now since I have lost her I am having the hardest time doing this on my own! I really need help! The guys I try to text including the one I don't know if he likes me anymore, when I text them I feel like I mess up and say stuff wrong. Liek the other night night, I text one of my ex boyfriends because I am starting to like him again so I figured I would try, and I tried to bring up something from the past ...
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I didn't tell anyone I was raped and I kept dating my rapist
Posted Friday December 24 2010, 2:39 am
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old sophomore girl. When I was in eighth grade I was at a friends house with a few people. At one point I went into the basement to get a soda and this guy followed me. He pressed me against a wall and covered my mouth and started grinding against me and kissing my neck. I've always been small and I couldn't push him off. He fingered me and told me to give him head but someone called down the stairs and he let me go. I didn't tell anyone... And I kind of just forgot about it. Freshman year I started dating this guy for about five months when he raped me. He apologized once and i just started crying. All he said was "its okay"and that's the only time we talked about it... We kept on dating for another three...
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facebook
Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 9:39 pm
I really need advice on what to do about this situation. My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year..new years is one year. We are both 21, and go to the same college, and when we're at school we pretty much live together. However, for break we are like 4 hours apart. I thought I trusted him completely..until recently. I got on my computer and got on facebook, and because he uses my computer sometimes it was automatically signed into his name. I didn't realize this until I clickd on the messages and saw messages from a few girls. The one that really caught my eye was one asking a girl to come over at 3am. He said soemthing along the lines of being able to keep her up even though she was tired. So i don't know what happened aft...
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In love and frustrated!
Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 5:03 pm
Ok so I am in love with this boy and I am only 13 but hear me out, I love him so much I litteraly cry at nights some times, I have liked him since last May, we were best friends he let we would hang out together do stuff together he would let me wear his hat it was perfect and in August I finaly told him I liked him! and he said he liked me too! it was the greatest thing ever I told my friends and then I asked so are we going out and he said I don't know. I was like ok I will give him time to think that can't be so bad, then it is December now and he never talks to me anymore, never answers texts but sometimes i still feel like I have hope and into this year he has been hanging out with alot of preps and not me. What do I do? Please help me I have been waiting forever ThAnKs(: <3
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how do i get his attention
Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 4:14 pm
i have this friend and everyone says we should get together because were always fighting but we always fix it before the day is over this happens in school we dont really talk out of school iv asked question about him already on this website and they all tell me the same thing his into me and i like him back but i dont know what to do about this were on break now so i havent seen him but when we get back how do i get his attention how do i get him to tell me how he sees me without asking im kinda shy when it comes to that and he doesnt think i like him even though i do im just that good at hideing it so i dont know what to do now ?
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I want him to like me!
Posted Thursday December 23 2010, 2:39 pm
Ok so theres this boy jose and i really really like him,yes he knows my feeling i told him bout them a week ago we still hang out and txt but i want to be more than friends.So i don't know what to do or how to take our "friendship" a step closer into a relationship.Any advice??
thnx in advance
TINK2359
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Confused
Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 9:50 pm
Hi, i broke up with my boyfriend a year ago. he sheeted on me when he left to the Dominican republic. when he came back i asked him who was that girl and he told me that was his cousin. it was all a lie. when he went back ovethere he got a different girl. now he's with her. now he is back to his town and he was telling e how much he misses me. 2 days ago he came walking to my house and it was very cold out. he came because he wanted to see me. he told me he has changed. i asked him why is he doing this when he has a girl in Dominican republic. he said he is just waiting for her to do something a guy so he can break up with her. he told me that he is going to come to my house tomorrow. i am confused because if he comes he knows he is going t...
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Odd question
Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 6:15 pm
I know this sounds odd but i'm curious. (this is mostly for girls but guys can answer to if they want).
Would you feel comforable watching porn (or a sex scene in a movie) with your bf/husband?
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Something makes me curious about him even though he is a BAD guy?
Posted Wednesday December 22 2010, 1:24 pm
Hey! I'm a fifteen year old girl, sophomore. So I was at this party last night and there was this guy that used to go to my school (he got expelled for getting busted with pot) so he goes to a school nearby (he's a junior, 17). So I barely even knew him until last night and a few factors, ahem, impaired my judgement and I went up to him and sat in his lap while he was playing cod. He taught me how to play and then we stared dancing. For awhile. And we hooked up, but just making out. He asks for my number and I give it to him. He texted me today. I don't know what to do. Im kind if interested in him but I know he's not what you'd call a "good kid". Okay I'm not exactly a good kid either but I've never been interested in a guy this...
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