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I don't know if the boy I like likes me anymore so i am trying to move on!
So there is this boy and I am not going to get much but he did like me at one point and I dont know if he does anymore so I am trying to move on but it is hard!!! and it would be easier but I lost my best friend last year because lets just say she went bad. She knew how to make her way around guys and she brought out the flirty side of me, now since I have lost her I am having the hardest time doing this on my own! I really need help! The guys I try to text including the one I don't know if he likes me anymore, when I text them I feel like I mess up and say stuff wrong. Liek the other night night, I text one of my ex boyfriends because I am starting to like him again so I figured I would try, and I tried to bring up something from the past and he replied something that made me feel stupid so now I think he thinks I am stupid and he hasnt acted like we are friends since then...! I really need help on getting my own self back and getting a boyfriend, I really need one and want one to get my life back together! Please help !---ThAnKs(:----!
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Just be yourself, and if hes a nice and honest guy, he will like you, for you. You can always try to laugh around him, and make little gestures towards him, like lightly touching his arm or putting your hand on his knee. You can also find a guy who likes you, and then find all the great things about him. You will end up seeing the good in him, and will eventually (hopefully) start to have feelings for him, and that may help get over the guy you like now. (:
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Well technically you don't really need a boyfriend but I'm here to help so...:)
Who needs a "bad" friend to make you feel better anyways. Just be yourself. And a hint of advice if you are going to talk to your PAST boyfriends...never bring up the past. Everyone hates when the past is brought up because it is just that, the past. Apologize to your exboyfriend and move on. Eventually he will come to know everyone makes mistakes. :) Be flirty or find another friend that brings out that side of you again. :) take chances and move on. Just tell yourself that the guy that might not like you is taking to long and you need to get a move on. So :) be yourself, be flirty and wild, and have fun.
Good luck. :)
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Sounds to me like you need a confidence booster. It was not your best friend that the guy liked, it was YOU. So screw that friend, you'll find another. And as for the guys, guys love nothing more but confidence. Flirt in the way that makes you comfortably, and do not try to be something you are not. You'll get over this boy eventually, you are just dwelling in the past.
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The only way to truly get over someone is to find another person you like better. Right now it seems life is hard and I know how tough it can be without a best friend but you will find a new one as well. There's so many people out there just relax and give it time. Don't continue to sit on your current situation because it seems to be hurting you. You are young and need to enjoy life. Trust me when I say a new best friend and boyfriend will come along soon and they will love you as much as you love them. Good luck and enjoy the holidays.
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