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Getting him back - PLEASE HELP
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 11:36 am
My ex boyfriend and I broke up 2 weeks ago. He says he still loves me, he still kisses me, holds my hand, and everything. He says he doesn't want to be with anyone in a relationship at all, but he's doing it now. He wants me to do what's best for me, he wants me to move on and see someone else since his focus is school at the moment. He says he'll be interested in other girls, but not fall in love because he'll get distracted in school. He says even if he did get married, he'll probably love me for the rest of his life. Since I was his first love and first... Everything.
I don't want to pressure him into getting into a relationship with me when he's not ready. He just thinks that he's never going to be ready for a relationshi...
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friends with benefits - confused
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 10:49 am
so I've had this friend, we met 4 years ago. I'm 24 now.. Started out as just friends (best friends) I was dating his friend... I tried a few times to leave my boyfriend, as the situation was bad, but couldn't. I ended up cheating on him with my friend. More than a few times. We had a 6 month thing going on behind my boyfriends back (please don't judge without knowing backgroud) well, he got into some trouble annd went to jail and then moved 3 hours away. I completely blocked him out of my life. A year later he messaged me and all those feelings came back. We spent 2 weeks together. I told him I could never be with him because I know the way he is (he's a womanizer) and he lashed back at me and said he couldnnnt ever be with me because of t...
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cant get over him
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 9:47 am
My boyfriend broke up with me 4 months and I can't get over him. Last month he was saying he still loves me n misses me loads and wants nothing more than to have me back but he never mentioned getting back together so I stopped speaking to him n we haven't spoken for over a month now
I feel like I will never do better than him and he was perfect for me :( I dunno what to do I thought I'd be over it by now. I have to see him at least twice a week which make it worse :(
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first kiss
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 3:22 am
ok so ive kind of come to conclusion that the kiss is gunna come natural (hopefully) but my propblem is leading up to the kiss im gunna freak out and be nervouse i just know it! please help! give me some ideas to get over it! THANKYOUU
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I'm a tease, I need to fix it.
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 1:40 am
20 Female.
So this always happens and I feel SO bad. I start talking to a guy and then we basically talk dirty to each other over text or whatever, and I get really horny like I want them there with me right then. But then when it comes time to do something -anything, I just can't. I feel uncomfortable. This is how I always am at first and then the guys think I'm a tease like you just said you wanted to do this or that and now you're saying no and telling me to stop? I am an attractive girl, guys are always like "your so sexy, I'm sorry i just can't keep my hands off of you" and I'm confident with how I look so I don't know what the problem is. It's like I really wanna be sexual with someone, but then when it comes ...
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He's not a good kisser, how can I help him
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 1:30 am
20-f Ry -19
So I really like this kid Ryan. Hes so sweet, respectful, everything you would want in a guy. The last time we hung out, we kissed and made out. I wanted to kiss him but oh my gosh was it the worst thing ever ..he basically ate my face. It was horrible. And he kept wanting to do it. I felt like I didn't even know what to do because I could barely do anything since he was so sloppy. I didn't know what to do!! I can't tell him he's not a good kisser. And sometimes you just want those cute peck kisses. So we were laying down watching a movie and I had to leave and he was like okay come on one more time, so he started making out with me again. All I wanted was a cute peck kiss to say goodbye. Finally I said, just give...
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How can I get him to make the first move?
Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 12:53 am
so there's this guy I'm kinda crushin on but he doesn't really know me. I'm pretty sure he knows OF me, but I think he's so good looking and from what I know about him, I like. we graduated from the same high school only he's 2 years ahead of me. he works at this place really close to where I live. I've never even talked to him and I'm way too scared to make the first move and just randomly talk to him. we're facebook friends but I don't just wanna randomly message him, that might come on as a little creepy. what can I do to kinda get him to notice me?
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why is he still putting stuff?
Posted Monday December 27 2010, 11:25 am
My ex boyfriend broke up with me 4 months ago. He seemed like he regretted it afterwards, he made the decision quite abruptly and didn't actually think it through.
We spoke here and there a while afterwards but then I cut contact. He still text me now and then saying he still loved me, missed me etc. I asked him whether that meant he wanted to get back together and he said he wasn't sure.
I haven't spoken to him for over a month, but I do check his facebook (bad I know) and he puts lyrics to our favourite songs all of the time. I know he isn't seeing anyone else and he always puts things like I wanna make you mine..or lyrics to songs we used to sing to eachother. Does this just mean he misses me?
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My wife has had numerous sexual partners and it bothers me now.
Posted Monday December 27 2010, 5:17 am
I got married 3 years ago. My wife and agreed not to share our past sexual history so that it didn't get in the way of our passion for each other. Two weeks ago I walked into the room while she was on the phone with her friend. I gathered from the conversation that they were discussing sex, which is no big deal. She threw out the number "39" once and I just ignored the whole thing. The next day we got into a heated discussion over her friend (who I think is bad news to hang around with all of the time since she has a habit of sleeping around and cheating on boyfriends; I just don't want my wife associated with a person like that) and my wife told me she's already slept with 39 men and "about" 10 women so she knows what s...
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What type of girl does guys get attracted to? Guys answer please~
Posted Monday December 27 2010, 12:06 am
Does guys prefer hot sexy girls or cute girls? What about clumsy girls? Smart or stupid? Any additional information can be added :)) Also what kind of girls do you think is hot and what kind is cute?
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It's getting worse and worse every day
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 11:44 pm
I have the strongest feelings ever for this one guy but he doesn't talk to me anymore it seems he is ignoreing me and I know what your gonna say just talk to him.. it's not that easy for me because I feel that vibe from him.. You know it's gotten to a point that I've been crying close to everyday as long as I'm preoccupied with somethig I don't cry and if I'm not infront of people I just can't cry in front of people... I know why I can't stop thinking about him is because he is the closest guy I have ever gotten to. I miss this guy so much it's making me stressed everytime I see him with another girl talking I feel terrible. I'm a mess I can't meet any guy to replace him.. I feel like there's no way out... He means so much to me I'll do any...
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Why do guys have to be so confusing?
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 11:17 pm
I have a crush and he is giving me HUGE mixed signals. One day he will like touch my arm and laugh at my jokes or get really close then another he will barely speak to me! I thought he liked me back at first because he didn't start these odd actions til about a week ago (we see each other everyday) but now he is just plain out confusing me. Any advice on what I should do? Get over him? Give him time? Ask him what's up(which I hope you don't say because I don't want to put him on the spot)?
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Moving on from bad relationship
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 11:09 pm
I recently got out of a relationship just to find out that im pregnant and he has a girlfriend already. For some reason i cant stop txting him and i know that i need to b/c he was a dog and is not good enough for me! he has treated me 100 times worse since he found out about the baby. i just dont know how to move on! I need some advice!
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Confused
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 10:38 pm
So hers the story so far: I'm 13 year old girl & i have a MAJOR crush on this guy named Nathaniel. I have been told all sorts of things like that he's gay(which i don't believe). Well his best friend asks me if i wanted to go out with him while we were in the band room. I told him I did & he goes & tells Nathaniel. Nathaniel just nods & walks out of the room. Just recently I've started having dreams about him & some of them made no sense. I honestly don't know what to do. My best friends Cayley & Riley keep taunting me about ho I'm falling in love. What do I do?
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Not sure if Im gayy or not
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 10:25 pm
To start out Ima homophobic. Two men and two female ar wrong in the eyes of God. And Im a southern baptist. Lately, Ive been gettng these urges around girls, and I get hornny. I also get turned on by two girls kissing and I want to try it. Am I gayy? I look at girls butts and at there boobs sometimes also.
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Problem with my online relationship
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 9:27 pm
Okay so I'm 19/female. Been dating a guy online for about 8 months and he's coming to visit me early 2011. The problem is I have so many insecurities and jealousy issues and it always makes us fight, a lot...I guess the reason I have them is because of past relationships, and the fact that my boyfriend used to be an online-flirt(like seriously) doesn't make things any easier seeing as he's still friends with some of those girls, who are really beautiful, and he's made it quite clear in the past just how beautiful they are. I know the past is the past and he's with me now but I can't stop thinking about it, like if he still likes them or secretly still wants them...I'm always finding something to get upset about, trying to find something he'...
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Is this bad, the way he treats me? Or is it normal? It makes me feel bad.
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 4:19 pm
So I have this guy , and we have been seeing eachother for a month or two and he always makes these rude comments like ''oh if my ex was alive id marry he ri know you dont like hearing it'' or ''you have the same wasteline like amanada'' or makes jokes ''i would pick a 20 year old model instead of you '' and so lately.. i just ignored all the rudeness.. but i took him to a work party , and he made a joke saying '' oh i can make my imagination make you pretty'' and laughed and then made another rude joke of ugly jokes and put a cloth on my head and then looked around at all the girls adn then turned to me oh you look good too.. and its so frustrating because i do everythingn for him and he treats me like this... and he says he is a bit cruel...
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What good methods are their to get a guy!!??
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 10:08 am
This won't be to long but anyway I have made mistakes in the past with guys and I am not going to go there but lets say I know good methods that work to get a guy but I just was wondering if anyone had anymore because I really need some help. I know everyone says be be yourself I know that its just do you have any like fun ways or you know what I mean haha?(:! see I am trying to get back my ex boyfriend and I can't really use the same approach anyone have any ideas?? -ThAnks(: Happy Holidays(:<3
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I'm pregnant but I don't think it's my boyfriend's baby because I cheated!
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 8:04 am
I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. Two 1/2 months ago I cheated on him when he went away on a trip with his parents. I know I shouldn't have done it but it was with a guy I was interested in for a long time and I got those urges. Long story short, when I cheated on my boyfriend I went all the way with the other guy and we didn't use a condom or anything. My period missed and I took a pregnancy test that showed a big positive. It's been a couple of months since I cheated and I'm 100% sure I am pregnant.
I told my boyfriend I'm pregnant. He got all excited and thinks it's his baby. I guess I can't be for-sure it isn't his though because we've been having sex every since a month in the relationship though, you know?...
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being asked out
Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 5:04 am
i like him, but what do i say when he asks me out?
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