I'm pregnant but I don't think it's my boyfriend's baby because I cheated!
Question Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 8:04 am
I've been dating my boyfriend for 7 months now. Two 1/2 months ago I cheated on him when he went away on a trip with his parents. I know I shouldn't have done it but it was with a guy I was interested in for a long time and I got those urges. Long story short, when I cheated on my boyfriend I went all the way with the other guy and we didn't use a condom or anything. My period missed and I took a pregnancy test that showed a big positive. It's been a couple of months since I cheated and I'm 100% sure I am pregnant.
I told my boyfriend I'm pregnant. He got all excited and thinks it's his baby. I guess I can't be for-sure it isn't his though because we've been having sex every since a month in the relationship though, you know?
I never told him I cheated. I don't want to ruin the relationship. I can't be for sure the baby isn't his or anything. Should I tell him? I just don't know what to do because I have feelings for him and I know he'd make a good father. I mean, if I tell him and he gets mad and leaves me but the baby turns out to be his then it's all complicated. It's such a sticky situation. Help?
awesomeal16 answered Sunday December 26 2010, 9:38 am: If it is someone elses baby, when you have it, he will find out and be devastated. IF your boyfriend is udnerstanding you will get through it. Tell him yourself. Dont let him find out after you went through labor. [ awesomeal16's advice column | Ask awesomeal16 A Question ]
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