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Lost In Anxiety and Confusion
18/f
I just want to know if I come-off too strong because I think I'm not fit for relationships. This one guy went from liking me to admiring me, and I told him I had feelings for him but we never formed a relationship. Now he's to busy breaking-up and reconciling with his girlfriend, and I find it quite pointless, but he still considers me the most admirable girl he has ever met. I think it's nice being admired, but it hurts when you're not loved. At school, I just feel very out-of-place. I am more sympathetic of my teachers rather than my peers. My close friends look up to me and are often "awed" with how I think or what I have to say. They see me as a fighter--"an independent woman" as a teacher once told me, but I get so lonesome and lost. I just don't know, if how I feel is "right". Honestly, I think I have to get out of this little city I'm living in and move somewhere else--somewhere more promising.
So any insight/or advice will help cuz clearly I have no clue on what to do...THANKS :)
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Everyone feels out of place in High School, so don't think that you're strange for feeling that way.
Life after school is so completely different as you have probably noticed. You meet so many more people, make so many more friends, and learn a lot about the person you are. You're still so young and relationships will come when the time is right. Don't focus so much on being in a relationship, but rather just enjoying yourself and 'going with the flow' so to speak.
If you're a strong, independent woman then don't change that just to get into a relationship faster. What you're feeling is normal and will pass over time.
Go out, travel the world, educate yourself with life and culture. You've just entered the adult world and you like every other 18 year old really have no idea where to go. You'll realize ambitions and passions soon enough, so don't stress.
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