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Not sure if Im gayy or not
To start out Ima homophobic. Two men and two female ar wrong in the eyes of God. And Im a southern baptist. Lately, Ive been gettng these urges around girls, and I get hornny. I also get turned on by two girls kissing and I want to try it. Am I gayy? I look at girls butts and at there boobs sometimes also.
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It seems as though since you have these urges, you might be bi sexual or lesbian. This is not bad at all, and God loves everyone no matter what race, sexuality, anything. We are His children, and he loves all of us.
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Many teens experience conflicting sexual desires and preferences. What you are feeling is perfectly natural. Yes, I feel there may be a possibility you are developing lesbian or bisexual tendencies and if that's the case there is absolutely, positively nothing wrong with that. God loves you no matter what. Contrary to what the church might say, God loves everyone and does not discriminate because you are gay. This could be a phase that you'll outgrow or it could be a life-long choice you will make. I would suggest that if you continue to be attracted to other females and are still uncomfortable with those feelings then find a support group for gay teens. It'll help you to realize you're not alone. Hope this helps.
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It's totally natural to want to experiment when you're a teenager. You're feeling out what your sexuality really is, because guess what? There's proof that you can't control it. Even though you feel it is wrong, you MAY be gay because it is natural and uncontrollable.
If you are exclusively attracted to females, then you would be considered to be a lesbian. If you are attracted to both males and females, you would be considered bisexual.
I know it's your religion, but please don't hate yourself for feeling this way. It is natural and there's nothing wrong with it. I actually know a baptist who grew up with a preacher for a father who is a lesbian, and it took her 10 years of soul searching to be able to forgive herself and realize that God made her that way even though she'd been raised her whole life to think it was wrong and dirty.
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