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Confused
So hers the story so far: I'm 13 year old girl & i have a MAJOR crush on this guy named Nathaniel. I have been told all sorts of things like that he's gay(which i don't believe). Well his best friend asks me if i wanted to go out with him while we were in the band room. I told him I did & he goes & tells Nathaniel. Nathaniel just nods & walks out of the room. Just recently I've started having dreams about him & some of them made no sense. I honestly don't know what to do. My best friends Cayley & Riley keep taunting me about ho I'm falling in love. What do I do?
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Dear confused
Hello young love ,i have excatly the same age i know what the feels like its dificult to get over some one at the young age i know and what i did is that ive asked that person by my self if the feelig was mutual he said yes he had a girl so i said anti quote good for you to him so id be like mean in a nice way but he kept on liking me so id ignored him and he still one day i told him i know you like me can you please stop knowing that i cant be with you hurts me so we began to be friends and now i see him as a brother .. When ever i start falling in love with some one deeply imagine kissig a brother ...i know eww thats the way i got over him it was hard but i did it ...
Hope you find your way too ..
hugs & rockets
moniitah
xoxo
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First you need to find out if Nathaniel likes you. If he does, then forget what anyone else says. Go out with him. It seems as though you are so concerned with what everyone else thinks that you are forgetting to look inside your heart and make the decision that you would enjoy most. Forget what people say. If you like him, go for it girl. (:
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First of all everyone goes through this kind of phase when they your age. What you need to realize, and what I wish I realized then, is that you have your whole life ahead of you. High school is next and college is where all the crazy adventures happen. Don't be to consumed with wanting to be in a relationship but if it works out with a boy that's great also. Just keep in mind you have so much stuff you need to see and things you have to do. What happens now doesn't define the rest of your life. Good luck and enjoy being young. It only happens once.
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