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Why do guys have to be so confusing?
I have a crush and he is giving me HUGE mixed signals. One day he will like touch my arm and laugh at my jokes or get really close then another he will barely speak to me! I thought he liked me back at first because he didn't start these odd actions til about a week ago (we see each other everyday) but now he is just plain out confusing me. Any advice on what I should do? Get over him? Give him time? Ask him what's up(which I hope you don't say because I don't want to put him on the spot)?
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Either this guy is executing the hard to get routine to a T or he is just a flirt and does it a lot. In all honesty this guy might be into you. He could be scared of rejection or not sure about his feelings. Some guys are just like that to every girl though so watch out. If you like him do not be scared to make a move yourself or ask him whats up. You need to find out now or you could always wonder what could have happened between you.
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To me, it sounds like he could be either:
A. The type of guy I consider to be a tease- they like flirting with girls for fun but usually don't have any serious intentions
B. Confused about whether he likes you or not, or if he wants a relationship or not
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C. Nervous about you, afraid you won't like him the way he likes you
You should try initiating some flirting with him. This will show him that you are interested, so it will make him less nervous if he sees that you might like him. Try to talk to him every day, and if you don't have his number yet, try to get it. If he makes the effort to text you, then he is definitely (At least somewhat) interested. Keep watching out for his signals.
If this goes on for to long without him making a move, you shouldn't waste anymore time on him. Ask him straight up how he feels or move on.
Good luck,
-Abby
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