Is this bad, the way he treats me? Or is it normal? It makes me feel bad.
Question Posted Sunday December 26 2010, 4:19 pm
So I have this guy , and we have been seeing eachother for a month or two and he always makes these rude comments like ''oh if my ex was alive id marry he ri know you dont like hearing it'' or ''you have the same wasteline like amanada'' or makes jokes ''i would pick a 20 year old model instead of you '' and so lately.. i just ignored all the rudeness.. but i took him to a work party , and he made a joke saying '' oh i can make my imagination make you pretty'' and laughed and then made another rude joke of ugly jokes and put a cloth on my head and then looked around at all the girls adn then turned to me oh you look good too.. and its so frustrating because i do everythingn for him and he treats me like this... and he says he is a bit cruel but he didnt mean to hurt anyone , also he said that hes at his primetime of life 23 and he needs sex because he doesnt want to waste it as he heard on the base... and so , he said he wont wait years for me , but 6 months is enough and then later that night at work , he said he is happy with what i give him... does this make sense?
It's unfortunate and sad that you have to ask if this is normal behavior. It's not. You should never allow anyone, male or female, treat you the way he is. Break up with him. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
am answered Sunday December 26 2010, 6:38 pm: yes its bad. maybe he is a jealous person. i find i am jealous of my boyfriend or feel hurt i sometimes complain about things he does ...but its bad. if he is always like this he is not worthy of u [ am's advice column | Ask am A Question ]
miranda_love answered Sunday December 26 2010, 5:25 pm: Yea that's very immature. I wouldn't date someone like that or even consider it a thought. It's not normal. Maybe he's just using you or something, for sex. Don't give him what he wants do what you want and maybe his attitude will change towards you for good. He's a weird guy. [ miranda_love's advice column | Ask miranda_love A Question ]
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