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How can I get him to make the first move?
so there's this guy I'm kinda crushin on but he doesn't really know me. I'm pretty sure he knows OF me, but I think he's so good looking and from what I know about him, I like. we graduated from the same high school only he's 2 years ahead of me. he works at this place really close to where I live. I've never even talked to him and I'm way too scared to make the first move and just randomly talk to him. we're facebook friends but I don't just wanna randomly message him, that might come on as a little creepy. what can I do to kinda get him to notice me?
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Do you have any mutual friends? One sneeky way to get a guys attention is to get a mutual friend to bring you up in conversation and talk about how great you are. You could also get this mutual friend to have a get-together and invite the two of you.
Be more visible to him. Not in a stalker-ish way, just walk past his work now and then and if you happen to be in the same area, make an effort to be somewhat nearer to him. If you do get him within talking distance you can always make general conversation. Even bringing up something like "Hey, didn't you used to go to [insert name of high school]? Your face seemed familiar. I went there too."
Do the usual flirty body language like a cute smile and not being overly excited just to be in his presence. Try not to force conversation as well. Just be nonchalant about it all and after you've spoken for a few minutes just say something like "It was nice meeting you." and leave with a casual exit.
If you do suddenly get a courageous feeling to make the first move, do it! Goodluck :)
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You could show up at his work at least 3 times a week. Or give him a nice flirting line when he's at work. Maybe he will notice you and talk to you. Or you could workout and get some nice clothes to wear so he will come up and talk to you. If he still doesn't make the first move find out who he's friends with and talk to his friends. It should help since you have never talked to him. Hope this helped!
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