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I don't know what to do


Question Posted Tuesday December 28 2010, 12:34 am

I screwed up big time. I did something that I know was wrong. I know I have lost the respect of someone who I care about. I've lost all their trust and I know they don't think highly of me like before. I'm torn to peices about this. I can't sleep or think straight. Please Help... I don't know what I can ever do. I know this is very vague but... I just.. I don't have a clue how to fix this.

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adviceman49 answered Tuesday December 28 2010, 11:27 am:
Regaining someones respect and trust is probably the hardest thing you will ever do. Most importantly it is also the most worth while thing you will ever do.

You start by apologizing to this person and admitting whatever you did was wrong and stupid on your part. If there is any logical reason for what your did, say your were lured in to it, as in an affair, and you were just weak, then do so. You then tell this person you will do whatever it takes to earn their trust and respect back, then do it.

It is possible, depending on what has transpired that the situation is beyond repair. If we are talking about a parent remember one thing. You may have lost their trust and even their respect. But you will never ever lose a parents love.

This is the best I can do with what you have provided.

Good luck.

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