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Long Distance Relationship...should we see other people?
Posted Thursday February 24 2011, 4:04 pm
Well here is some info about our situation. I am 17 f from Canada, he is 17 m from Usa. We met on the site omegle and ever since have been talking everyday for almost 13 months. We have never met in person. we only see eachother on skype from cam and voice. We have been planning for him to come up and meet me this summer. But...we are still waiting to see if his parents are going to allow him to or not. But there is also an issue of us getting jobs in the summer as well as him gettin the money to come here. Passport and wat not he has 2 get, but hes parents havent said if he is allowed to or not yet. so 4 or 5 months we are thinking a bout meeting. Dunno if its gonna happen though, weve been waiting for an answer for 13 months pretty much. ...
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how do i know?
Posted Thursday February 24 2011, 3:53 pm
my boyfriend is acting wierd...... Is he cheating?
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do I need to forgive him, and if so how do I do it?
Posted Thursday February 24 2011, 1:44 pm
'kay so basically I live with my boyfriend, R. we've been together for a year and have lived together for 6 months. we've been having a hard time for at least the last 4 months.. fighting ALOT. we honestly just can't seem to help ourselves. but I got pregnant by him, about 3 months ago. at that point we were trying really hard to stay together and make things work, for the sake of the baby which we wanted to keep. while I was pregnant, I found a bunch of things in his e-mail between him and his ex-girlfriend. nothing TOO overtly sexual, and she lives a world away in Australia (we live in Canada). But she was his first love and last girlfriend. They were together for 2 yrs. There were lots of messages between them where he said he 'loved' he...
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I need advice on improving communication with my husband.
Posted Thursday February 24 2011, 4:20 am
My husband and I are quite literally polar opposites. I'm a "tree hugging hippie," and he's a "war-monger." I love him madly though, and he feels the same way, but because we are so vastly different, we communicate in different ways. When I was in school I had all kinds of psychological tests and access to books etc, for things like "Love languages", "Hartman's Color Code", and other such tests, but now I don't know how to get ahold of those anymore. I'd like to find some way to improve our communication, because when we do fight it's usually because of discrepancies therein. If I could get any advice on the matter it would be greatly appreciated.
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first time and physical problems
Posted Thursday February 24 2011, 2:47 am
i just recently lost it, sunday night. i'm still pretty sore down there when you touch it and my thighs have been burning, not to mention the pain in my back. and i feel so dirty complaining about it but can't help but feel like this has gone on too long. is it normal?
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He is always hugging me
Posted Thursday February 24 2011, 1:28 am
well they is a guy that i like and he is always giving me hug when he hugs me it doesn't feel like they mean anything what should i do and is they anything to help me please
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i dont know what to do about my boyfriend!
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 11:28 pm
i am a 20 year old female that is in love with my highschool sweetheart and when i met hiim he was the sweet shy guy and even though we are 3 years apart we are still together after 7 years. unfortunatly all we do is fight. and it is over stupid stuff he tells me all the time "i love you to death but god you drive me insane and sometimes i really hate you" it makes me feel ugly and not worthy of anything. i completley ignore the words "i love you" when after that he tells me he hates me. :( HELP!!
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Boy in my class...
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 10:22 pm
So I'm in high school and there's this guy in the class that I t.a. for. I know for a fact that we have things in common but he's terribly shy. He hardly ever talks to people unless he is close to them. When I first noticed him i immediately thought he was attractive and have since discovered our similar interests. I have been sneaking peaks at him and smiling and he has been smiling back...sometimes i see him in the hall and we smile. The class switched seats and he sits right next to me now! I tried to talk to him and got some positive response but it ended in an awkward silence...But he is really fidgety and he often looks over at me and laughs when something funny happens. He also smiles at me all the time when our eyes meet. I want to...
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Boyfriend - sex drive
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 10:10 pm
I have the best boyfriend in the world. We have an excellent friendship, partnership, our personalities are very alike. We have been together over 2 years. I think like most couples we started out having the greatest sex life imaginable. Things have really slowed down. He says he is still attracted to me, still loves me. He has no concrete reason as to why things have changed. I am hurt and feel really sad. I feel like he has lost interest in me although he assures me this is not the case. He is 46 and works full-time. I don't know what to do. I have tried to initiate things and that doesn't work. He seems fine in every other way. What do I do?
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He's just not doing good with keeping me happy
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 9:51 pm
me adn my boy have been together for almost a year. we've done 3 hr long distance for half our relationship due to college. he's a good boyfriend, but he def doesnt know how to be romantic, or do things to show he cares. he hsa only come to visit me 2 times, ive gone home to see him so many times. i have to force him to take off work and plan tocome v isit me, i have to tell him to do certain things like to tell me he loves me and misses me since were doing long distance. when were together in person were perfect. i have 100000% trust for him, and we're best friends. but he doesnt make the efforts. everyone that knows us knows hes a sweet guy just not good with realtionships or expressing himself or being romantic. he was not any different ...
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losing my bestfriend?
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 9:50 pm
I feel like i losing my bestfriend of 3 years. She's the closest I've felt to someone EVER. I get very insecure about losing her a lot and I try not to let it bother me but when shes always commenting on this other girls facebook statuss and photos and it gets to me because she doesn't do that to my stuff anymore. I practically have to force her to text me and even then she barely says anything. Whenever she needs help figuring guys out or something she's texting me or calling me. When I need help from her about that sort of stuff shell never text back or she won't answer her phone. Calling back hours or days later sayin her phone ws messing up. But when it like Friday comes when I'm allowed to go over she always tells me I'm coming over. T...
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So there's this boy...
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 9:07 pm
He's funny, nice, adorable as all hell, and I dig him. I'm a 14 year old girl and he's around the same age but in only one of my classes. I wanna get to know him better but I'm ridiculously shy, and I don't know if he likes me back or if he's single or what. Any suggestions? I've been talking to him a little lately but the teacher is INSANE. No talking no fun etc, so yeah. What do I do? Thank you answerers.
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Should tell him
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 7:35 pm
So there's this guy I absolutely adore and we had history but not like dating and stuff like that and lately I haven't been able o sleep because I've been so mad at myself for not taking chances! I really like him because I don't know but lately well actually after summer it was awkward and it has been getting better but now he goes to a different school and I miss seeing him everyday and I've been thinking so much that I can't sleep do you think I should tell him? And how? Like in just going to do it over a text or fb private message. My one friend thinks it'll make it more awkward my other one thinks that I should just tell him so? What now please help I'm desperate in lala land kinda in love?
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am I bisexual or lesbian?
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 6:52 pm
I am a 17 year old girl, I have been in relationships with guys, but I don't know if I have ever been in love with them.. I think, I have been in relationships with girls too. Here is the difference between the two, when I am with a girl, I feel I need to protect them, I never get enough of talking to them, Kissing them makes my heart melt, so on and so forth, When I am with a guy,like I am now, I don't care if they talk to me or not, even if people say he is so hot and can't find myself attrached to them, I almost get disgusted with myself when I kiss him and don't know why, I just don't know what to do, I can't take this confusion. People tell me that I am happier with girls. But I just don't know what to do, ever sience I was little I wa...
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Being "friends".
Posted Wednesday February 23 2011, 12:55 pm
So my ex and I dated for three months, and he broke up with me over an issue that made him not trust me completely. From the beginning, he wanted to be friends and frankly, I was uneasy about it. Normally when the relationship's over, it's over for me, and that door shuts as to not become a revolving door of emotions. But he ended up explaining to me that he still wanted to remain "friends" to see if maybe we could get back together again, and could see each other in a light outside our relationship (which for the last month was full of arguing over things we both misunderstood about one another.)
I agreed to this - and still, I'm uneasy. I've made it clear to him that I feel as long as I'm being his "friend" that...
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Love and death
Posted Tuesday February 22 2011, 11:59 pm
His name is Justin. He's absolutely beautiful. I met him six or more months ago through some friends. We had something for each other, but I had a boyfriend at the time so it went nowhere.
Now I've been single for awhile. For I was dumped for an eighth grader (I'm 19). Anyways. He and I got together and ended up hooking up a few times. Which is fine by me because I'm still a little shaken from my last relationship. Yet, I can't help but fall for him.
He constantly tells me that I'm not making a good choice by falling for him, because he's a 'monster.' He calls himself this because he's unstable. A year ago on his birthday, his girlfriend was shot in front of him outside of the mall in a mugging. He is still ab...
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what do you think of these writings?
Posted Tuesday February 22 2011, 11:52 pm
debating on whether to show these to the muse. im not looking for edits(im happy with what ive written), just opinions on how they make you feel, and if they seem deep enough. also, they might be confusing bc theyre written about personal situations..ps, only in high school (; These are peices ive had saved on my labtop for about a year and this is my first time opening them in awhile. perhaps show me your favorite, or generally what i could improve on, thanks. (again, i know there is many type o's and errors. butits late and i just wanted to get this out.)
You say you’re a cheater not a liar,
Then why do you not even bother
With all the people you said you needed
And all the places you said you wanted ...
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Does friends with benefits ever actually work?
Posted Tuesday February 22 2011, 11:47 pm
me and my best friend are thinking about trying out the whole friends with benefits thing because neither of us are ready for a relationship yet. but from stories i've heard, friends with benefits doesn't usually work out. what do you think?
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bestfriend? boyfriend?
Posted Tuesday February 22 2011, 10:54 pm
Okay so I love my best friend with all my heart we've been best friends for 5 years. She's like my sister. In the past 2 years I haven't had a botyfriend close but never closing the deal with one guy that I loved we kinda just drifted. It took all until when school started to get over him. So I started looking again. But it seems I can never actually get the guy for some reason. My bestfriend goes through them like she's had atleast 5 real relationships and even though they end up breaking up I am still so envious of her that she can atleadt go through it. I've had a couple boyfriends but not recently. I'm not really a girl that needs a boy to depend on but we all know they are nice to have sometimes. I get pissed at her
sometimes a...
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should i keep texting him or let it go?
Posted Tuesday February 22 2011, 9:11 pm
so the other night i hooked up with someone i had a crush on for a longg time. i wish i would've waited a little but when you're alone with someone you've really been into for awhile its so hard to not want to especially when he's initiating it. the thing is he doesn't text me first, when i text him first we talk for hours though. he said he doesn't want a relationship at the moment because he was in a serious one last year but i dunnoo i'm okay with being hookup buddies. so should i text him? idk :/
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