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how do i know?
my boyfriend is acting wierd...... Is he cheating?
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He could be having other issues, or something is going on. Instead of jumping to conclusions, be there for him and talk to him about what is going on.
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No not necessarily, don't blame him or make such bad assumptions, and even if he is unfaithful, which we don't know at all now for sure, you should trust him, because it's important that a relationship is built on trust.
Maybe he just has something on his mind, and he doesn't really want to talk about it, that's why he hasn't told you, and it's upsetting him or taking up his time and thinking, so I think that you should sit with him and talk, and tell him that you've noticed that he's been acting weird, and if there is anything that has been going on in his life that he needs to talk to someone about it, and tell him that you're there for him, and ask him if you've done something wrong. Maybe he's upset at you for something you did or said, but you're not aware of it, so ask him, and tell him if it's something about the both you, your relationship, is something upsetting him about it. Talk to him. Communication is very important in any relationship.But don't tell him are you cheating on me, because if he's not, then that could cause a problem alone, a big fight where he'd get mad at you for not trusting him, and he has all the right, if you did ask him if he's cheating, he has the right to get mad at you, you should trust him. And even if you're right, don't blame yourself for trusting him, on the contrary, you should praise yourself for trusting him, because you're doing your part of the relationship, but if he's unfaithful and couldn't do his part, then that's his problem.
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Your boyfriend acting weird doesnt necessarily mean that he's cheating it could mean that theres something happening at home and he doesnt wanna tel you or maybe hes having doubts and doesnt wanna tell you until hes dealt with it himself. But unless you explain how he's acting then its a bit difficult. But the best way is to actually ask your boyfriend. I mean dont just be like are you cheating on me because you've been acting weird be like are you okay because recently you've been weird? or distant? something like that and just hope hell come clean with whats going on. Hope this helps good luck xx
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