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first time and physical problems
i just recently lost it, sunday night. i'm still pretty sore down there when you touch it and my thighs have been burning, not to mention the pain in my back. and i feel so dirty complaining about it but can't help but feel like this has gone on too long. is it normal?
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Those are called Adductors. There's adductor longus, adductor brevis, and adductor magnus (there's even adductor minimus, but it's argued if that's it's own muscle, or part of magnus). When you work them out, they get sore. Having sex really works them out. Once they've been strengthened enough (through sex maybe?) they'll stop getting sore. You just need to relax and take a nice hot bath and possibly get a massage of some sort to help ease your muscles. And then the next time you do have sex take it nice and slow. Hope this helps xx
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I would say it's semi-normal. When I lost my virginity, I was sore for a couple of days, but I've never heard of the pain lasting almost a week.
I don't think anything is wrong with you. Did he pound you though? Because if he was thrusting really hard & fast, that could be why you're in so much pain. Sex is fun and everything, but it's best to go slow & steady when you're dealing with a virgin.
I'd just take some Aleve and relax. I'm sure you'll be fine and the pain will go away soon. Next time, have the guy be a little more gentle.
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