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bestfriend? boyfriend?
Okay so I love my best friend with all my heart we've been best friends for 5 years. She's like my sister. In the past 2 years I haven't had a botyfriend close but never closing the deal with one guy that I loved we kinda just drifted. It took all until when school started to get over him. So I started looking again. But it seems I can never actually get the guy for some reason. My bestfriend goes through them like she's had atleast 5 real relationships and even though they end up breaking up I am still so envious of her that she can atleadt go through it. I've had a couple boyfriends but not recently. I'm not really a girl that needs a boy to depend on but we all know they are nice to have sometimes. I get pissed at her
sometimes and its so hard to explain that I'm jelous I guess. I have told her this much before but it doesn't really help
because she avoids a lot of stuff when I'm spilling my
feelings. I ask her why and she says its hard to deal with your
problems when I can't even deal with my own. I don't know
what exactly I'm asking. Advice just advice aboout anything
maybe what to say to her to make her understand I don't
know.
Maybe I should mention our looks. I'm not ugly. I get alot of comments about how pretty i am. dirty blonde hair. More blonde though. Long like middle of my back long. Blue eyes porcelain like complexion or so I've been told. I'm not fat. I have c cups and I am porportionate.
She has I smaller waist then me. A cup size bigger then me. Brunette hair that she always wears in a bun. And hazel eyes. She's pretty too and people always mistake us for twin sisters.
I don't know if that helps. Please and thank you!
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Darling, what do your looks have to do with this?? You can't compare you two!! You both are beautiful and amazing in your own way, that's what makes you so special. And of course you're jealous, I totally get that, but it's not your friends fault that she gets a lot of guys, but it's not your fault either. What, do you expect her to just stop liking guys for you? That's not fair is it?! It's none of your faults...it's the guys fault!!! I totally understand that it's nice to have someone. Of course it is. You can me the biggest bad ass, independent woman in the world, but it's still nice to feel special, be treated correctly, being told your beautiful by someone other than your best friend, being loved...
But what you must know is, that if those guys are too stupid to like you, then don't waste your time, they don't deserve you. You deserve a guy who see's you, who listens to you, you treats you like the queen of the world, and you thinks you're the prettiest thing he's ever seen. And I know that sounds impossible, but there are guys like that, trust me! Just keep searching...there's someone for everyone! :)
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