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should i keep texting him or let it go?
so the other night i hooked up with someone i had a crush on for a longg time. i wish i would've waited a little but when you're alone with someone you've really been into for awhile its so hard to not want to especially when he's initiating it. the thing is he doesn't text me first, when i text him first we talk for hours though. he said he doesn't want a relationship at the moment because he was in a serious one last year but i dunnoo i'm okay with being hookup buddies. so should i text him? idk :/
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I agree with Zane.
I know you've liked him for a long time but just being 'hookup buddies' won't make you happy in the long term. You will become more attached and want more and that will only cause you hurt.
Leave it alone and stop texting him. Let him text you if he wants to but don't get your hopes up and don't wait around for him because you might deny yourself the opportunity to meet a great guy who wants the same things as you.
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If the guy told you he didn't want a relationship, Then I would leave it alone.
A hookup buddy is not anything serious but in the end it is still a relationship, Whether or not you two are dating.
Best to let it go, If he is really interested in you let him come to you when he's ready. You don't want to be persistent and scare him off.
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