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Friendship
Friendship is a beautiful thing that can get messy sometimes. Ask your question here.


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should i be mad at her?


Posted Monday June 26 2006, 4:21 pm

i'm 17. female...me and my best friend *stacy* where always together 24/7 before and after school. then i started summer school. she would come up there and help my mom. well one day she ran into her old boyfriend. started hanging with him. *jon* introduced me to *jason* we started daten. then about a week later stacy leaves jon then jason leaves me. now stay and jason are together. i ask her why she did that she said "s***t happens and to get over it" that really hurt me she was my only and true best friend. now should i be mad at her and have nothing to do with her. or give her a 2nd chance?

-keep in mind when she started hanging out w/ Jon again she changed alot to the point that me and her parents noticed her ha...

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friendships && guys. =/


Posted Monday June 26 2006, 12:50 pm

one of my best friends (brylie) is convinced shes in love with this guy. hes rude && controlling... he always her friends we need to give them "more space" when in reality - they have all the "space" in the world. he wants them to be left alone at parties && such. and we've been doing that. he's not really that rude to brylie, he's extremely pushy towards me && the rest of her friends. she's constantly blowing us off for him && making us feel unwanted and unneeded. what can we do?

thanks. ((i'll deff rate you if the advice is good)) =]
&hearts always.

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working and friends..


Posted Monday June 26 2006, 12:03 pm

okay soon i will have to go to my moms work for a month to help her from 7am - 8pm.. everyday from monday-saturday .. i dont know what to do cause i dont want to lose any of my friends and no one likes to hang out on a saturday.. and i cant just skip a day cause my mom will FLIP.. you dont understand.. and its like a month not seeing my friends.. what can i do?!

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friend is sick


Posted Monday June 26 2006, 10:28 am

My friend is ALWAYS sick. Now that it is summer, my friends and I go out alot together and have alot of sleepovers. So we are alwasy with my friend that gets scik. She just recently got me sick. I don't want ot get sick over the summer, so that means I don't want to hang out with her when she is sick. She should be hom anyway, but she doesn't want to miss anything. What can I say to her so I don't have to hang with her?

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my friend wants a vibrator and wants me to get it for her.


Posted Monday June 26 2006, 1:48 am

my friend is embarrased to walk into a store and buy her own goddamn vibrator so she wants me to buy it for her and im a guy what the hell am i supposed to do......i dont even know where to get one.....please help

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i have no control, but she still manages to make me feel bad


Posted Monday June 26 2006, 12:39 am

i have a friend who enjoys making me feel bad about stuff i have no control over. She likes this kid who absolutely can't stand her because she's clingy (i'm not trying to be mean, but i just thought its good to include every detail) she's absolutely in love with him and if he doesn't answer her on AIM she freaks out with the "are you mad at me? what'd i do" etc. He doesn't like her, but he does like me, and i like him. And she just can't accept it.(i sounded like a bitch, but i didn't mean to) Well he and i talk and may date, and she's always saying things like "i don't see why you talk to him, he's an asshole, if i were you i would have given up on him" and then she tries to make me feel bad or something by saying &qu...

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QUESTIONSS!!


Posted Sunday June 25 2006, 2:44 pm

My guy friend and I do this think where when we're bored, we can ask each other anything and the other has to answer. I'm all out so do you guys have any REALLY good questions? We're both 18. ex. What's the most embarrassing thing you've done in bed?

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I'm saaaad (this is long and may be hard to follow)


Posted Sunday June 25 2006, 12:00 pm

14/f

A few days ago My friend, Stephanie told me that her friend said that I'm not a people person he doesnt like me and kinda piss him off, so I got mad at him and I started to cry. Then he was labeling my dad as a Hippie (I don't think there is anything wrong with hippies but I don't like labeling people whom they don't know well). Stephanie was saying things like "I agree with you" or "you don't need him" Then a couple days later stephanie told me that her 2 cousins whom i've only met on about two occasions wanted to fuck me and they got my home phone number and they were calling me and telling me they wanted to fuck me and I felt uncomfortable so I hung up on them and called my friend Heena to call ste...

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my friends friend


Posted Sunday June 25 2006, 11:43 am

my friend invited me to go to this lake w/ her and her friends next weekend and i thought it was okay at first, but then she started telling me more about it. she said that the lake is her friends grandparents and hes the one who wants everyone to go. hes 19 tho and im 15 and i just think its sorta weird u kno? my friend is 15 too but if we both go there will be 6 people there 3 girls and 3 guys. the rooms are seperate so it shouldnt be too awkward bu i have a bad feeling about it. last night my friend invited me to the movies to go w/ him and her and i said no she was like " he'll meet your parents if you want him to he said hed give you a ride" but im here thinking why does he want to meet my parents, he hasnt even met me! then ...

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is it time to give up?


Posted Sunday June 25 2006, 3:11 am

sorry if this is long.. but pleasee read.. thanks soo much in advance..

well i have or had.. a really good friend... lets call him jack.. and me and jack have known each other since 2nd grade.. and well.. me and jack get into alot.. and i mean ALOT of fights.... and well i think that we arent friends anymore.. cause i said (which i should not have said) i understand if you dont want to be friends anymore... and then.. he just didnt say anything.. so i guess that means we arent friends..(right?) and i've just known him for soo long.. i dont want to lose him as a friend... but should i just give up on trying to make our friendship work? or should i try something to be friends with him.. and if so.. what should i say or do?? THANKSS ALOTT FOR ANSWERINGGG...

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strugling with bf


Posted Saturday June 24 2006, 8:38 pm

hi i'm a guy and one of my best friends is a girl. i'm usually the one giving the advice but this time i don't know what to do. you see we have been friends for 3 years and this year both of us have been very close. now that we are just a few days away from graduating she seems to have changed. we don't talk a lot anymore and everytime i try to strike up a conversation it seems she doesn't talk much. the thing is that i think that she's been stressed with her family life and she usually tells me everything i've had bad experiences with fake friends and she's not like that. we both care for each other a lot. and i'm just wondering if this is a faze that she's going through. we used to talk everyday but the past week we have been drifting apart. i need help!!

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chose boyfriend over friends?


Posted Saturday June 24 2006, 5:30 pm

I'm in my first serious relationship with an amazing guy. My family & friends all like him, and of course I like him very much. The problem is, since him and I have been together, I've spent less time with friends. They have been trying to hangout with me, but for some reason I have more fun with my boyfriend. I feel like a horrible friend because these girls are great friends. Is it so wrong that I'd rather be with my boyfriend at this point in my life? (17/F)

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Apologizing


Posted Saturday June 24 2006, 1:17 pm

I have this really good friend. Today was her first swim meet of the summer and I went to support her with our other best friend. About half way through the meet we went for a walk outside to cool off. We missed the rest of the meet, including two races that our friend scored first place in. Her mom got after us, but her mom was done being mad before we were done being guilty, so now we still feel guilty and our friend is still mad. I need to do something really big to apologize to her. Any suggestions?

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new friends, but old friends


Posted Saturday June 24 2006, 12:55 pm

hi, well school has just ended for me. and now its been summer for almost a week. i havent seen or hungout with any of my friends. i havent even talked to them really. im getting the vibe that they dont want to hangout with me.

im kind of in a 'threesome' with my bestfriends. and of course, im the one thats left out. i just want .. new friends. but i want to keep these friends too. i dont really know what to do. can anyone help me? thanks

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I can`t lose her, shes my bff!


Posted Friday June 23 2006, 7:56 pm

I`m going to start out by saying this will be long, but thanks so much to anyone who reads this all and helps me out.
I have this best friend, Casey. Words cannot descibe how much of a bff she is to me. She knows everything about me, and always knows what I`m about to say. Were with each other 24/7 and we hardly fight. She`s practicly my sister, we do everything together.

A week ago, she got this new boyfriend, this guy that I didn't like before she started dating him. His name is Nick, he`s 12, shes 13. Casey is a virgin, he isn`t. They`ve already done sexual stuff together and its their first stupid week together.

Last night I was hanging out with both of them and Nick lit up a ciggarrette, and exchang...

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Posted Friday June 23 2006, 6:09 pm

I'm going off to camp soon and i'm worried. I went to camp last year and I had a lot of friends. Since all of my friends still live near eachother i'm afraid that I lost all of my friends!

My main point is what could make me more popular? I'm pretty (I think), I wear hollister, abercrombie, and american eagle, and I have friends here? So what would make me more popular and have more friends?


thanks<33

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Everyone flocks to HER!


Posted Friday June 23 2006, 5:26 pm

I love my best friend but I just don't get why people are drawn to her. Guys, girls, even little kids.


Well, she's pretty and everything so I guess I understand why all guys love her. But still, other girls and little kids die to be around her as well.


I went with her to pick up her contacts yesterday and while we were waiting, she was reading a magazine and a little girl just came up to her and after 10 min, the girl didn't even want to leave with her mom!


It happens ALL the time. At school, at the mall, the movies, EVERYWHERE. People just come up to her, they don't even know her, and start talking to her. I don't get it??

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Her Rotten Best Friend


Posted Friday June 23 2006, 4:21 pm

my sister and her best friend (whom is also her godsister) grew up together. well one day my sister came to me and asked me if she could ask me for advice, and i said yes, so she said : well nat and me are best friends, but she makes me feel bad alot and has no idea. like she takes credit for somthings like why boys like me, she'll tell my aunts that "oh yeah every single boy that likes ene (my sis) liked me first, especially her bfs" my aunts would just be silent and nod. she makes me feel bad because she is sometimes competetive with how her life is compared to mine. like one day she's like "can you come to my house?" and i said no im in trouble and then she goes "your always in trouble" and i just told her w...

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Is god real?????


Posted Friday June 23 2006, 2:53 am

Is god real im confused

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dont know what to do..


Posted Friday June 23 2006, 1:15 am

okay.. so im 15/f... and sorry in advance if this is long.. but ill rate high for any answers..

So me and my friend.. lets call him tom.. well ive known tom for 9 years. and we get into a lot of fights over really stupid things.

And right now were in a fight. and i dont know what to do anymore. because okay this is what our fight is right now:

Well i was talking to him on aim. and it was a normal basic conversation the whole hey whats up.. and all that.. well then he said he had to go. and he signed off. then some other kid.. lets call him fred.. imed and said. "were you botherin tom" and i was like no.. and he was like yeah right. whats up? so i was like what are you talking about. ...

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