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new friends, but old friends
hi, well school has just ended for me. and now its been summer for almost a week. i havent seen or hungout with any of my friends. i havent even talked to them really. im getting the vibe that they dont want to hangout with me.
im kind of in a 'threesome' with my bestfriends. and of course, im the one thats left out. i just want .. new friends. but i want to keep these friends too. i dont really know what to do. can anyone help me? thanks
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I sort of have this problem too. I get that vibe a lot. Why don't you join the local theater group, whether it be on stage or behind the scenes? You can also go to a pool and meet some new people. But don't lose touch with your old friends. Sit them both down and talk to them. Tell them how you feel about your relationship and where you think it's going. Chances are, they feel the same way. Hope that helps!
Alice
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Hah! This is so me! Really, this one is easy!
First of all, have you called any of them? Have you tried to get them to hang out? If you're not making an effort than you can't be sure that they don't want to hang out with you. A lot of the time, the person that you want to hear from is waiting for you to call. If you want to keep the friendship, you need to work at it!
As for new friends...just call someone you want to know better and ask them to hang out! There's nothing wrong with having more friends. Really, for both of your problems, all I can say is that you need to reach out to people. Just call your old friends more often, stay in the loop...but hang out with different people too! xoxoxo!
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Hmm I'm kinda in the same situation as well. Except one friend always invites the other one every where and never invited me anywhere while the other invites me places. Try inviting them both to your house talk to them and explain how you feel.
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heyy i had the same problem...just call them up and talk to them and tell them how you feel ... if they were your true friends they will understand....how old are you n where do you live cuz im always looking for a new friend
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I use to have the same problem. I would always feel like was left out cause there were 3 people. Well just call them and make plans. Do it in advance so they wont have already planned something. And if you dont wanna hang out with them talk to some other pople you talk to maybe go see amovie and then start to hang out more.
Jess<33
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im the exact same way! fortunately im in drivers ed right now so im forced to be around some people i dont know and ive made ALOT of friends in there. you can definately keep your same friends but join something to get more friends! different camps are good for things like that and not just like campfire camps i mean like all state camps for certain things theres so many options! talk to your parents about it and see if thats okay or if they have any other ideas! have fun and good luck!
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Hi, i have the same problem as u do. I'm 14 and i constantly feel that mi friends ignore me.I guess they don't really but i feel that way have you tryed calling any of them?
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i know how you feel with the threesome
im in a foursome, and i am ALWAYS left out!
even if my other friends are mad at each other, i seem to be the one not invited out.
you should go to your local pool, and there are sure to be people from your school there
any of your friends that have IM/Myspace, talk to them thourgh that
invite them to the pool or mall
its easier then on the phone
but you could txt msg too
good luck and have a blast this summer!
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itll seem like itll take forever but eventually you and your threesome of friends will end up all becoming really close. if not you can never say you never tried to become good friends with them. in the mean time you can make new friends too.. you might have to wait till school starts again for that or maybe go to your churches youth group. kind of dig your way in there.. make sure they both know they can trust you. help both of them out in a time of need.. i dont know your two other friends so i wouldnt be able to say much but i hope i helped with what i told you. if you need anything else just ask.. i can relate to this!
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ohhhhh my god. i have the same thign thats going on right now
like all the time they will just hang out and not invite me and ive been getting REALLY pissed off...so what i did is i just hung out with my old friends or stayed at home with my family and had fun
you shouldnt force them to hangout with you..just invite them places and if they say no then thats their loss
you still have more friends to hang out with, just hang out with an old friend and meet new people...thats what i do
you shouldnt waste your time sulking at home while there out having fun ..you should have fun too!!!!
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