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Question Posted Saturday June 24 2006, 12:11 pm

ok basically i'm 14 years old and i've never had a boyfriend. never had a guy asked me out. never been kissed at all. and it's really pathetic... its not that im ugly or fat or have no friends or i'm mean, or anything. guys just never seem to like me. a lot of my more unattractive friends seem to get boyfriends, and my personality is just as good, i'm just as outgoing, i'm just as ANYTHING. and i feel like the world's biggest loser. is 14 really old for someone whos never been kissed/had a boyfriend????? tell the truth!

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schlichtinator answered Saturday June 24 2006, 5:18 pm:
You're not a loser. If you actually talk to people you'd probably find out most people haven't done anything remotely meanigful at that age. Hell, I'm sixteen and neither have I. There's no rush, it's about finding the right person, not the quickest and easiest.

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CutieAllTheWay41 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 4:43 pm:
your not ugly!nobody is.dont tell yourself your ugly.thats a disadvantage in self-esteem. Some girls havent had boyfriends.do you have a lot of friends that are boys? if you dont,that means you need to get closer or start becoming friends w/ boys you think have a great personality.all relationships start w/ friendship.

hope i helped,
Kristine<3

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countrygurl123 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 4:16 pm:
Now way.Iam 17 and i've just started dating myself and no guy ever asked me out untill i was 16 and now that iam 17 i've still never been kissed.I hope i've helped please email me at spicegirls615@yahoo.com to tell me if my advice helped or not please.

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jewelzx0 answered Saturday June 24 2006, 3:28 pm:
dont worry... your normal :]
its not to old. you just probably
are putting across more of a friend vibe.
try and flirt a little and ull be
on the right track in no timee
hope i helped

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BlackAngel answered Saturday June 24 2006, 3:11 pm:
No way. I was 16 before I even had a boyfriend at all, I know people in college who still haven't been kissed. It's not a big deal, the only reason it seems like one is because somehow it got to be "normal" for people to be dating when they're fairly young. It's no big deal.

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missmissgurl answered Saturday June 24 2006, 2:33 pm:
NO, I know someone who didn't have their first kiss/boyfriend til 16, and it wasnt because she was ugly or fat it just didnt happen when she was younger. Just wait. Don't worry bout it too much, it's not meant to be rushed!!

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rainxindoors answered Saturday June 24 2006, 1:51 pm:
Well I'm 14 and I've had a few boyfriends here or there, but nothing too serious. Actually, most of them dumped me because I didn't make the first move of kissing them. I haven't had a first kiss either, which makes me scared to make the first move. So, I think you are fine, and I'm sure you will find the right boyfriend soon. You might want to ask the guy you like out. Sure, you may be rejected, but you can just move on to another guy until you find mr. right =]
Good luck and have fun! =]

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BLONDShorty answered Saturday June 24 2006, 1:40 pm:
nah i got my first kiss when i was 14 n i go 2 an all girls school. my life didn't start getting "exiting" till i was like 13. thats when i first started talking to boys. hope that made you feel better xoxo

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shelinakicksbutt answered Saturday June 24 2006, 1:32 pm:
well actualy 14 isn't too old at all...you can get your first kiss/boyfriend at 15...16...even 18!!!

just live your life while your yyoung..you shouldn't worry about having a boyfriend just have fun cause boys...they go out with you you get hooked then something happens you breka up and alot of drama tarts.....its not worth it

just live your life while your yyoung and your beuatiful if it's meant to be than a guy will come to you =)

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