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Her Rotten Best Friend
my sister and her best friend (whom is also her godsister) grew up together. well one day my sister came to me and asked me if she could ask me for advice, and i said yes, so she said : well nat and me are best friends, but she makes me feel bad alot and has no idea. like she takes credit for somthings like why boys like me, she'll tell my aunts that "oh yeah every single boy that likes ene (my sis) liked me first, especially her bfs" my aunts would just be silent and nod. she makes me feel bad because she is sometimes competetive with how her life is compared to mine. like one day she's like "can you come to my house?" and i said no im in trouble and then she goes "your always in trouble" and i just told her well then deal with it because its goin to be like that for a while and than she says "i never get in trouble" and i say so. she even makes up her life like we were seeing how may weights we could lift and so my cousin prepared his weights and i went to the restroom and hen i came back it was my turn and i lifted it all by myself six times then she says when im done, "did you knoow that i can lift the wieghts your cousin does for five times?" i smiled then when she had to go home i asked my brother how many times every body else lifted he goes, "cousin ten, me-1, nat-1, but we had help except for because." i was shocked when he said nat (bestfriend) did 1 not 5 like she said. she usually says stuff then whenever i remind her about what she said she says "oh my bad i dont know why i said that, i ws crazy" she says that everytime she lies to me about that. what should i do?:
p.s. they aren't related except that they're godsisters, but before that they were just bestfriends. help me and my sister please.
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Maybe your sister, or you should talk to her. People should treat other people how they want to be treated.
Your sister needs to stand up for herself and don't let her friend get to her.
If your sisters friend is lying to her then she's not a very good friend to start off with. Friends need to be open and honest with each other, otherwise there would be no trust in the friendship.
Tell your sister that she doesn't need to be treated like that, she is her own person and doesn't need a friend to make her feel bad.
If your sisters friend can't handle the fact that your sister wants to be treated like a friend not someone who she can always push around, well then she isn't worth your or your sisters friendship.
Hope I helped... Good luck :)
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Someone that you call your friend should be picking you up when you fall, not rubbing you face in the dirt and making it worse. Tell your sister to talk with her so called "friend" and tell her what she feels. Your sister shouldn't just sit back and let nat put her down like that all the time. They should talk it out in a mature way so that niether of their feelings get hurt. After that, they should wait and see where it goes. And if it doesn't go over well with nat, well, there are many people your sister could be friends with.
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Your sister shouldn't be friends with someone like that. If all she does is put her down and say how much better she is than her, then they shouldn't be friends. No one deserves to be treated like that. Your sister should talk to her about it, and then wait a while to see if anything changes. If not, then she should just not be friends with her. hope i helped =)
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